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Subject: Spanking Till What Age Author: Louise Vancisic [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 13:06:31 01/09/26 Fri I welcome any commentary on the following correspondence excerpt. Share your feelings and experiences as a daughter or mother. Louise: As to frequency, it varied with my age. Prior to age 10, I was rarely punished for issues of “responsibility” so I probably averaged one or two formal spankings a month. At age 11, my parents became more demanding and the spanking frequency rose. From age 12 to 14, the combination of stricter rules and my desire for more freedom resulted in an increase of spankings for both responsibility and behavior. I doubt that a week would go by without Mama finding reason to administer a spanking. Twice a week wasn’t so unusual either. At age 15 I was spanked much less and at age 16, without any announcement, it stopped. M: Did you ever find out why spankings stopped at age 16? I think you told me that your brother was not spanked beyond his 12th birthday, which is the time when your spankings peaked. Strange. And twice a week feeling the hairbrush on your bottom must have been really awful. Did you still not hold this against your mom? Louise: Excellent questions M.. When the spankings stopped, I didn’t ask why. I didn’t even ask if they had stopped permanently. I went about my business as if they were still a threat. Later on, when I was safely an adult, I asked about it. Mama told me that she and Daddy had decided I was too old to be punished that way. I laughingly told her that I had felt that way when I was 12. “I know”, she chuckled back, “that’s probably why you wound up getting spanked even more.” As to the frequency, I did sometimes feel resentful. I will point out that many of the spankings were still by hand so it was not as egregious as you might have thought. I think more than the spankings, it was the strict rules and increasing chore load that caused more resentment. That and especially the slack granted to my brother. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Brooke [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:00:51 01/12/26 Mon Hello Louise! This is interesting. My last spanking was when I was 15. I received 3 that year, 2 from my Mom and then they stopped. But my older sis was 17. My younger sis is now 17 and hasn’t received a spanking in about a year that I’m aware of. I don’t know why parents stop at a certain age.

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Louise Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:52:05 01/12/26 Mon Hi Brooke. I knew that I could count on you for a comment. Have you found that girls are spanked to a later age than boys?

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Brooke [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:02:15 01/12/26 Mon Hello Louise! I really can’t answer that question because I’m not sure I know any boys who were spanked. I’m sure they were but it wasn’t discussed.

[> Subject: decoying and rationalizing Author: Emily Travers (yeah right) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:32:32 01/12/26 Mon Louise, you've been posting on various boards for over a decade, telling us that you're a pensioner. Why on earth would someone that age still even be thinking about such things even if you had been physically abused by your parents? If it wasn't so 'egregious', then what is the issue? You speak here of resentment regarding other aspects of your childhood. Is this a personal reason for your posting or are you using this as a decoy maneuver to encourage the idea that 'oh, spanking isn't so bad, there are worse things that parents can do'. Not very subtle. Bodack is another poster of that ilk. Neglect, certainly, Bodack, and lack of encouragement, as you've spoken of before. All bad parenting, yes. None are rationalizations for assault. And our German friend, for years on end has found a way to rationalize away her mother's fascism - how apropos for a culture who's whole gift is 'No!'

[> [> Subject: clarifications and queries Author: Emily Travers [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:21:10 01/14/26 Wed Well, the age appears correct, given your demographic. I have seen 'Louise Vancisic' appear on threads of long defunct spanking chats on VOY dating back to at least 2019 if not 2016. Same with 'Alfred22'. Not that this alone is of any great import. My question was rather why would someone of your age be posting at all and interested in 'stimulating discussion' amongst groups mainly populated by false posters, trolls, and despicable voyeurs? Certainly, I agree that your childhood context lent itself to violence in the home, so perhaps you are yet engaged in rationalizing these experiences; I am impressed, however, that you did not repeat your own parents' errors. Given that, why defend such actions at all? See as well my reply in the other thread.

[> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:48:22 01/12/26 Mon Hi Emily. I think that you're mixing me up with someone else. I grew up in a time and environment when spanking was rather common for children. I did feel resentful of the strict rules and I did feel that a number of my spankings weren't necessary. That being said, I look back upon it with mixed emotions. I know that my parents spanked me primarily out of concern for my well being. I did not raise my own children in such a manner. Though I believe that spanking is a legitimate parental tool, it's use must consider societal norms. In the 1960's, in an authoritarian, ethnic culture, it was considered normal to lift the back of a girl's skirt to administer a spanking. As to other posters, I offer my advice to stimulate discussion. Does that clarify my position?

[> [> Subject: misplaced reply Author: Emily Travers [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:26:14 01/14/26 Wed my apologies I did it again.

[> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Callum [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:56:01 01/16/26 Fri Hey Louise, Peak spanking years was about age 10 till 12, went through a very real "brat" stage and got spanked a lot. Got whacked most weeks. Teenage spankings were much less frequent but were 'big boy' yardstick beltings. There wasnt any particular "no more spankings" decision. Getting close to my 17th birthday I hadnt been belted in over 12 months. But for taking family car out underage unlicenced and speeding I learned the hard way that i could still earn a whacked bottom even at that age. That ended up being my last, but no doubt whacking older teenagers wasnt out of the question. Even post turning 18 i was wary

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:50:39 01/16/26 Fri Hi Callum, Were those whackings over your trousers, underwear or bare bottom? Did you have any sisters? Were they disciplined the same?

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:17:53 01/17/26 Sat Not as thin as panties or bare skin.

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Callum [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:09:24 01/16/26 Fri Hey Louise, got smacked heaps of times across Australian football shorts, which i basically lived in during hot summers. Got a few big hidings just wearing speedos, nothing else. They are bad as! Only have 2 brothers, they were treated much the same

[> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Douglas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:59:23 01/19/26 Mon What is normal and what goes on in a minority of cases are two different things. Here's the irony with me. My spankings that went on past the "normal" age to stop them (around age 10?) were more effective and impactful than the ones from my early childhood. This is because teenagers often rebel against their parents and behave badly. I could even see that as normal and perhaps healthy because the teen is trying to become their own independent person. It's an expression of separation from their parents. For better or worse when that rebellious independent spirit is squashed out of you it really has an impact, it shapes who you become. Especially if you are like me and take it all in and let it shape you. I am so much more passive and obedient than my typical peers. This is probably bad in some ways. In a sense I feel am being emasculated. Yet I have also discovered some people love it. They compliment me on how nice I am. I am also loved by the bosses at my part-time job, they don't normally find workers who are so naturally respectful and obedient.

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Nick, too [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:56:21 01/19/26 Mon If your future wife is dominant enough, she too will be thankful to your mother for bringing you up in this way. Maybe she will spank you, too. Hope you will accept it quite easily. What do you think about it?

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Douglas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:39:15 01/20/26 Tue I think I would accept it. I'm used to it. I have often heard men are attracted to women who remind them of their mother. That's true for me, I am attracted to dominant women.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Karen [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:12:00 01/24/26 Sat Mom says we will be spanked until the day we move out of the house. That does not mean just going away to college. Mom and my aunts and uncle were spanked at times even in college when home for college breaks.

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Louise Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:24:10 01/24/26 Sat Karen. Would she allow you to go away to college? Ae you inclined to go away or live at home? As a single Mom, could she afford to send you away? Do you cooperate when faced with a spanking?

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanking Till What Age Author: Karen to Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:51:51 01/24/26 Sat I will go to a nice college here in town. I will continue to live at home. I do cooperate when I am going to be spanked, outside of pleading prior to the spanking. I do start to kick and squirm during the spanking.