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Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride


Author:
Geogia
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Date Posted: 19:37:57 11/25/25 Tue
In reply to: Georgia 's message, "Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride" on 19:32:12 11/23/25 Sun


I’m not sure how I would have felt about taking my panties down myself, it was never an option. It’s hard to imagine baring myself like that when the LAST thing I wanted was to be exposed front and back for a spanking.
So you couldn’t beg “stop stop” like I did? What would they do? I guess you tried to take your spankings like a “big girl” but could you ever keep from crying?

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Louise Vancisic
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Date Posted: 20:41:25 11/27/25 Thu

Georgia - My older cousin Emma taught me that a big girl takes down her own panties. She said that it showed my mom that I was mature enough to accepts and fully cooperate with my punishment.

The few times I begged her to stop, she told me that she would decide when I had been sufficiently punished and that if I did it again, i would be spanked again for being disrespectful.

I could not keep from crying but both Cousin Emma and my mother told me that big girls do cry. My mother added that crying showed that I was truly repentant for the offense that I had committed.

And I knew that she would keep spanking me until I did cry genuine tears. And then some to be sure.

What are your thoughts on this?
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Georgia
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Date Posted: 19:17:30 12/02/25 Tue



Louise, I suppose baring styles are two sides of the same coin. Pushing your own panties down shows you accept a bare bottom spanking as your punishment while mom bared me showed that I accepted her authority to lower my panties for a spanking.
I know what you mean about being spanked well passed real crying OUCH!
I’m curious about how you and Emma came to discuss baring procedures. Was Emma also spanked?
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Louise
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Date Posted: 07:14:46 12/04/25 Thu

Georgia. Emma was four years older than me and she was also spanked?

Here is a memory of mine from one of her spankings that I witnessed.

I would like to relate a particularly moving memory. One time when I was about seven, my older cousin Emma, then eleven, earned herself a spanking. In front of my mother and me, my aunt instructed her to get across her lap.

There ensued a teary “please..Mommy …can w…we do th…this in my r….room”; but one determined “No Emma, we will do it right here” and my cousin’s hands reached for the hem of her sundress. She raised it and with no further instruction laid herself across my aunt’s lap.

Emma looked over at me, blushing to be sure, but with no trace of resentment that I would be watching. It was almost as if she felt sorry for me having to witness her suffering. Despite our age difference we were very close and loved each other. For my part I remember hoping she could sense my profound sorrow and sympathy and only wanting to be a comfort to her. She forced a little smile at me, as if to tell me it would be okay. Tears clouded my eyes as I nodded toward her and made a silent prayer.

A few seconds later my aunt raised her right hand and brought it down with a resounding smack on the smooth white cotton clad bottom. Twenty-five times that slender, aristocratic hand would rise and fall, smacking the errant bottom soundly, turning it ever darker shades of red. After a half dozen, I observed my cousin begin to sob quietly. At fifteen, Emma’s cries were unmistakable and I felt my heart breaking. Then came my cousin’s dirge of guilt; promising never again to disobey and to be a ‘really good girl.

During the last five my cousin cried very hard. Then the spanking over, my aunt gently helped her off of her lap and gave her a hug and whispered something in her ear. Emma turned to us and tears streaming down her face apologized for being a bad girl and disturbing our visit. My aunt gave her permission to go to her room to finish her crying.

“Emma …would….would you like me to come with you,” I heard myself offer.

My older cousin looked at me and nodded.

“I’d li … like that very much” she sniffed. “I really would.”

Looking over at my mother and my aunt all I could see were broad smiles and encouraging nods I stood up, walked over my cousin and took her hand in mine. And hand in hand we walked upstairs to her room. It was a powerful lesson to me about taking a spanking like a big girl.
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Georgia
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Date Posted: 13:30:44 12/04/25 Thu



Lou, thanks for sharing such a heartwarming memory. I can see how that would make an impression on a young girl. Was there a reason Emma got her spanking in front of you despite her pleas for privacy?
Did Emma ever see you get a spanking? How did it come about that you two discussed baring procedures?
Sounds like your mom and aunt had the same spanking procedures, is that how they were spanked growing up?

When I was ten I saw my 13-yr-old cousin Gale get spanked but it was dramatic and shameful. Her mom spanked her in the kitchen and as her jeans/panties were being pulled down Gale was begging “not in front of THEM!” (me and my mom).
Her mom pulled her over the lap and used a wooden spoon. Right away Gale was sobbing STOP STOP and I was amazed at the bright red ovals all over her buns/thighs.
Soon she was bawling begging kicking like mad.

She did a howling hopping spanking dance and I blushed at seeing her small patch of pubic hair - a BIG girl got bare bottom SPANKED and right in front of ME!
When Gale noticed me staring at her she barked, “STOP LOOKING!” as she struggled to get her pants and panties up from her ankles.
I remember shivering as I realized TEENAGED spankings would be in my future also.
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Louise
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Date Posted: 09:53:15 12/05/25 Fri

G: Lou, thanks for sharing such a heartwarming memory. I can see how that would make an impression on a young girl. Was there a reason Emma got her spanking in front of you?
L: My mother and I were over for a visit. Like my mother, my aunt did not believe in delaying discipline. I remember being upset and yet fascinated to see an older girl getting a spanking.

G: Did Emma ever see you get a spanking? How did it come about that you two discussed baring procedures?
L: Emma did see me get spanked and she would always comfort me afterward. Moreover, she saved me from getting a few spankings by taking the blame herself. At least twice, she took a spanking that rightfully should have been given to me. She protected me as if I were her little sister.
Emma talked to me about how a big girl takes a spanking. She said that when her mother decreed that her panties should come down, Emma always quickly complied. She said that big girl accepts her punishment and cooperates. Crying and instinctive kicking and squirming is ok but not to the extent that it interferes with the spanking.


G: Sounds like your mom and aunt had the same spanking procedures, is that how they were spanked growing up?

L: They were sisters and the answer is yes.

G: When I was ten I saw my 13-yr-old cousin Gale get spanked but it was dramatic and shameful. Her mom spanked her in the kitchen and as her jeans/panties were being pulled down Gale was begging “not in front of THEM!” (me and my mom).
Her mom pulled her over the lap and used a wooden spoon. Right away Gale was sobbing STOP STOP and I was amazed at the bright red ovals all over her buns/thighs.
Soon she was bawling begging kicking like mad.

L: Now it’s my turn for questions. Do you remember why Gale got spanked? Was she spanked frequently? Besides that incident, were you and Gale close? How often were you spanked and to what age? How were you spanked?
G: She did a howling hopping spanking dance and I blushed at seeing her small patch of pubic hair - a BIG girl got bare bottom SPANKED and right in front of ME!
When Gale noticed me staring at her she barked, “STOP LOOKING!” as she struggled to get her pants and panties up from her ankles.
I remember shivering as I realized TEENAGED spankings would be in my future also.
L: Did you enjoy seeing her spanked? Did you and she ever talk about it?


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