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Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Georgia [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 19:32:12 11/23/25 Sun In reply to: Douglas 's message, "Crying and loss of ego and pride" on 14:37:45 11/21/25 Fri Yes D! There was zero dignity in having my panties pulled down for spankings. My exposed bush was evidence I was a teenager but being scolded like a naughty 10-yr-old melted any “pride/ego.” Long before my spanking was over I would be just like when I was 10 or 12. I did that whole “Mother! please not a spanking” then the “Mom mom! STOP it STINGS” then the “mommaMOMMYY NO!” and finally after my dance it would be “mama I’m so sorry!” I often felt like a pre-teen for a day after a spanking. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Sookma [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:12:03 11/24/25 Mon What about the dialectics?

[> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:51:26 11/25/25 Tue Hi Georgia. Would you rather have had the choice to take down your own panties? I would get in trouble for pleading with my parents to stop.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Louise Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:39:09 11/27/25 Thu My older cousin Emma taught me that a big girl takes down her own panties. She said that it showed my mom that I was mature enough to accepts and fully cooperate with my punishment. The few times I begged her to stop, she told me that she would decide when I had been sufficiently punished and that if I did it again, i would be spanked again for being disrespectful. I could not keep from crying but both Cousin Emma and my mother told me that big girls do cry. My mother added that crying showed that I was truly repentant for the offense that I had committed. And I knew that she would keep spanking me until I did cry genuine tears. And then some to be sure. What are your thoughts on this?

[> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Geogia [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:37:57 11/25/25 Tue I’m not sure how I would have felt about taking my panties down myself, it was never an option. It’s hard to imagine baring myself like that when the LAST thing I wanted was to be exposed front and back for a spanking. So you couldn’t beg “stop stop” like I did? What would they do? I guess you tried to take your spankings like a “big girl” but could you ever keep from crying?

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Louise Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:41:25 11/27/25 Thu Georgia - My older cousin Emma taught me that a big girl takes down her own panties. She said that it showed my mom that I was mature enough to accepts and fully cooperate with my punishment. The few times I begged her to stop, she told me that she would decide when I had been sufficiently punished and that if I did it again, i would be spanked again for being disrespectful. I could not keep from crying but both Cousin Emma and my mother told me that big girls do cry. My mother added that crying showed that I was truly repentant for the offense that I had committed. And I knew that she would keep spanking me until I did cry genuine tears. And then some to be sure. What are your thoughts on this?

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Georgia [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:17:30 12/02/25 Tue Louise, I suppose baring styles are two sides of the same coin. Pushing your own panties down shows you accept a bare bottom spanking as your punishment while mom bared me showed that I accepted her authority to lower my panties for a spanking. I know what you mean about being spanked well passed real crying OUCH! I’m curious about how you and Emma came to discuss baring procedures. Was Emma also spanked?

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:14:46 12/04/25 Thu Georgia. Emma was four years older than me and she was also spanked? Here is a memory of mine from one of her spankings that I witnessed. I would like to relate a particularly moving memory. One time when I was about seven, my older cousin Emma, then eleven, earned herself a spanking. In front of my mother and me, my aunt instructed her to get across her lap. There ensued a teary “please..Mommy …can w…we do th…this in my r….room”; but one determined “No Emma, we will do it right here” and my cousin’s hands reached for the hem of her sundress. She raised it and with no further instruction laid herself across my aunt’s lap. Emma looked over at me, blushing to be sure, but with no trace of resentment that I would be watching. It was almost as if she felt sorry for me having to witness her suffering. Despite our age difference we were very close and loved each other. For my part I remember hoping she could sense my profound sorrow and sympathy and only wanting to be a comfort to her. She forced a little smile at me, as if to tell me it would be okay. Tears clouded my eyes as I nodded toward her and made a silent prayer. A few seconds later my aunt raised her right hand and brought it down with a resounding smack on the smooth white cotton clad bottom. Twenty-five times that slender, aristocratic hand would rise and fall, smacking the errant bottom soundly, turning it ever darker shades of red. After a half dozen, I observed my cousin begin to sob quietly. At fifteen, Emma’s cries were unmistakable and I felt my heart breaking. Then came my cousin’s dirge of guilt; promising never again to disobey and to be a ‘really good girl. During the last five my cousin cried very hard. Then the spanking over, my aunt gently helped her off of her lap and gave her a hug and whispered something in her ear. Emma turned to us and tears streaming down her face apologized for being a bad girl and disturbing our visit. My aunt gave her permission to go to her room to finish her crying. “Emma …would….would you like me to come with you,” I heard myself offer. My older cousin looked at me and nodded. “I’d li … like that very much” she sniffed. “I really would.” Looking over at my mother and my aunt all I could see were broad smiles and encouraging nods I stood up, walked over my cousin and took her hand in mine. And hand in hand we walked upstairs to her room. It was a powerful lesson to me about taking a spanking like a big girl.

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Georgia [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:30:44 12/04/25 Thu Lou, thanks for sharing such a heartwarming memory. I can see how that would make an impression on a young girl. Was there a reason Emma got her spanking in front of you despite her pleas for privacy? Did Emma ever see you get a spanking? How did it come about that you two discussed baring procedures? Sounds like your mom and aunt had the same spanking procedures, is that how they were spanked growing up? When I was ten I saw my 13-yr-old cousin Gale get spanked but it was dramatic and shameful. Her mom spanked her in the kitchen and as her jeans/panties were being pulled down Gale was begging “not in front of THEM!” (me and my mom). Her mom pulled her over the lap and used a wooden spoon. Right away Gale was sobbing STOP STOP and I was amazed at the bright red ovals all over her buns/thighs. Soon she was bawling begging kicking like mad. She did a howling hopping spanking dance and I blushed at seeing her small patch of pubic hair - a BIG girl got bare bottom SPANKED and right in front of ME! When Gale noticed me staring at her she barked, “STOP LOOKING!” as she struggled to get her pants and panties up from her ankles. I remember shivering as I realized TEENAGED spankings would be in my future also.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:53:15 12/05/25 Fri G: Lou, thanks for sharing such a heartwarming memory. I can see how that would make an impression on a young girl. Was there a reason Emma got her spanking in front of you? L: My mother and I were over for a visit. Like my mother, my aunt did not believe in delaying discipline. I remember being upset and yet fascinated to see an older girl getting a spanking. G: Did Emma ever see you get a spanking? How did it come about that you two discussed baring procedures? L: Emma did see me get spanked and she would always comfort me afterward. Moreover, she saved me from getting a few spankings by taking the blame herself. At least twice, she took a spanking that rightfully should have been given to me. She protected me as if I were her little sister. Emma talked to me about how a big girl takes a spanking. She said that when her mother decreed that her panties should come down, Emma always quickly complied. She said that big girl accepts her punishment and cooperates. Crying and instinctive kicking and squirming is ok but not to the extent that it interferes with the spanking. G: Sounds like your mom and aunt had the same spanking procedures, is that how they were spanked growing up? L: They were sisters and the answer is yes. G: When I was ten I saw my 13-yr-old cousin Gale get spanked but it was dramatic and shameful. Her mom spanked her in the kitchen and as her jeans/panties were being pulled down Gale was begging “not in front of THEM!” (me and my mom). Her mom pulled her over the lap and used a wooden spoon. Right away Gale was sobbing STOP STOP and I was amazed at the bright red ovals all over her buns/thighs. Soon she was bawling begging kicking like mad. L: Now it’s my turn for questions. Do you remember why Gale got spanked? Was she spanked frequently? Besides that incident, were you and Gale close? How often were you spanked and to what age? How were you spanked? G: She did a howling hopping spanking dance and I blushed at seeing her small patch of pubic hair - a BIG girl got bare bottom SPANKED and right in front of ME! When Gale noticed me staring at her she barked, “STOP LOOKING!” as she struggled to get her pants and panties up from her ankles. I remember shivering as I realized TEENAGED spankings would be in my future also. L: Did you enjoy seeing her spanked? Did you and she ever talk about it?

[> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Douglas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:11:10 11/28/25 Fri I'm not sure if this is common spanker behavior but I notice when I first start crying...those first gentle tears, my mother does the opposite of stopping. This is when she steps it up and starts spanking harder. She will even switch from hand to brush when my crying first starts. My impression is she isn't even consciously thinking about all this. I might be more aware of this pattern than she is but I don't know. I never talk to my mom about her spanking techniques.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Nadine [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:14:21 11/29/25 Sat Hi, I am Nadine and I am 15 years old. My mom always likes to tell me in advance when I am going to be spanked. I know this is because she likes to get me all agitated waiting to get it, And she loves to tell others that I am going to be spanked later--like after dinner or at my bedtime--and this literally embarrasses me to tears many times. Like two nights ago we had guests dinner, a married couple and another man who were friends of mom from work. And we were all just starting to eat when mom told everyone, "Don't mind if Nadine is very quiet this evening. I have promised her a good spanking at her bedtime tonight and so she is naturally feeling pretty glum and not very happy at all." See, she didn't have to mention that at all because she was not going to spank me until after they all left but that is typical of her. And, of course, as expected that started a big conversation about spanking teens in general which mom loves to do with close friends. All I could do was sit there red-faced and tongue-tied and trying to eat as the questions went back and forth. "Do you spank her on the bare?" "What do you use to spank Nadine? I use a hairbrush on my son, Tim, who is 12, and he bawls his head off when I spank him with that." This from the wife of the couple who is a very pretty young woman who is clearly delighted to hear I am to be spanked. And of course mom then lectures everyone on the benefits of the Lexan paddle that she uses on us, and sends my brother Pete, who is 12, up to her bedroom to bring it down and show it to everyone. And so during the whole meal everyone is talking about spankings and asking for details about the one I am going to get until I am sitting there with tears running down my cheeks from the total humiliation I am feeling, which mom always tells me is part of my punishment. Talk about loss of ego and pride? I could just crawl in a hole when she does that. Nadine And she does this at times with boys present who are my age or a little older and I can't describe the embarrassment I feel when she tells them about how she always spanks me until I do a lovely crying dance for her when she finishes.

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Dimmerdork to Nadine [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:09:46 11/29/25 Sat What does your mom tout as the “benefits” of the Lexan paddle? Do you agree with her? So what transpired after your dinner guests had left…?

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:53:16 11/30/25 Sun I'm sorry that happens, Nadine. She should realize embarrassment like that accomplishes nothing. If I were an adult visitor at that table I'd have politely asked why she felt compelled to share such personal details in front of you.

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Carrie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:59:30 11/30/25 Sun So sorry Nadine! How awful for you. In my teen years mother also liked to sentence me to be spanked later. “Agitated” is a good word for the tummy-twisting, clammy palms and shaking knees when I had to wait several hours or a day for my bare bottom spanking. This gave mom (and my younger brother and others) a chance to “remind” me during the day that I was due a spanking later. “Enjoy sitting now,” mom would smile, “you won’t feel like sitting on your sore backside later.” My stupid brother would slyly taunt “ohhh…you’re gonna get it.” And one aunt in particular liked to make me answer questions! “Are you thinking about your spanking right now?” or. “I bet it’s going to be REALLY embarrassing being spanked bare bottom at your age?” At 12 I felt like a big girl starting jr high but the first parent/teacher conference I had to sit with mom and 5 teachers (two. men, three women) and hear mom assure them ANY school trouble would mean a sound spanking at home. By the third time I’d start crying and between I’d beg mom not to tell them that I still got spankings but she promised I’d be spanked each time. That was wicked of your mom to show everyone the lexan! I’m also curious what she said about it? Did any guests hold it? And telling people you would end up dancing sounds like mom telling me in front of people that I’d be “bawling like a baby” before my spanking was over.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Nadine to Dimmerdock [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:25:54 11/30/25 Sun Hi, Mr. D. I used to get spanked with mom's hand and then with the back of a wooden hairbrush, and the smooth wood of the brush on the oval spanking side always got me really bawling hard in a hurry. Mom would smack my bottom all over with it and then she would use it lightly, just short hard cracks, on my upper thighs and that really made me screech. She did the same with my brother Pete and he always cried really hard like I do. The thing is that the hairbrush spankings were usually pretty short, like I might get 15 or 20 whacks with it and my bottom would be so red and sore that the last few would often leave purplish oval bruises on my bottom, and also if she hit me a little too hard on my thighs with it I would definitely bruise up right away. So with the short skirts that I wear like all of the girls my age wear that come down to three or four inches above the knee, kids and adults could see those bruises on my thighs when I was biking or just running around like shooting hoops on school recess with my skirt swirling around. And if mom made me wear long shorts or slacks to school, everyone would say to me or others things like "I bet Nadine got spanked good yesterday. Look what she is wearing." But the lady who sold Mom the Lexan paddle told her that one of the great things about it was it didn't leave bruises even if you spanked a long time. And she told mom when she used it she spanked her two daughters for a while, then let them cry it out awhile and then spanked them some more, and she could do that several times and give a real long spanking with it. And she said that since the Lexan paddle is thin and light your hand and wrist don't get tired using it and again, you can spank a long time and you don't get tired or achy using the paddle. And all of that is true and that is what she tells people when she talks about the Lexan. That night I told about both Pete and I got spanked after the guests left. Mom was in a real spanking mood after all the talk about spankings, and the young woman was telling us in detail how she spanked her kids and also that she was going to get a Lexan to use on them, and by the time they left mom could hardly wait to get Peta and I undressed and spanked good. Where I had been told earlier I was going to be spanked that night, Mom had said nothing about spanking Pete too until that woman guest suggested that she really ought to spank "your adorable son, too, if you are going to spank Nadine tonight," and mom told her that was a great idea, that he could always use a good spanking to keep him on his best behavior. So Pete was all teary eyed like me when they left, and he got a good spanking too. Nadine

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Dimmerdork to Nadine [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:23:41 11/30/25 Sun Well, that woman is not wrong…that parallels my experience with the Lexan paddle precisely. Several years ago, I mentored a young lady through her college career. Especially during her freshman year, she became well acquainted with my Lexan paddle…or, as she refers to it, “that horrible, evil, awful THING!” The sting of the Lexan is simply breathtaking, and, because it has so much more flex that a wooden implement, there’s much less marking/bruising. One can literally spank, and spank, and spank, and spank with it, giving far longer spankings than one would dare do with wood. And believe me, the Lexan paddle does a more that admirable job of quickly reducing a grown woman of voting age to a bawling, sobbing, begging, pleading, contrite, and very sorry little girl…long before her punishment is deemed to be sufficient…

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Nadine to Dimmerdork and others [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:43:02 12/01/25 Mon Mr. D, you perfectly described how my mother spanks me and Pete with the Lexan when you said, "One can literally spank, and spank, and spank, and spank with it, giving far longer spankings than one would dare do with wood." The only thing I'd add is after she spanks and spanks and spanks and spanks me like that with the Lexan, and I am a bawling mess right after dinner for example, she lets me go off to the playroom and cry it out there for about an hour or and until I've stopped crying completely and am playing games with Pete or with one of my electronic games that I can play myself. Then there she is in the doorway and she gets me and takes me back to the living room to give me some more of "my spanking" and she spanks me again almost as long with the Lexan so that I literally can not sit on my bottom after that until the next morning. And she does the same with Pete but not as long either time with him as she does with me, but he is still crying and dancing hysterically when she stops. After she spanks me the second time like that she holds me in her lap and cuddles and kisses me for a while and then I go to bed and my bottom and thighs are red hot and so am I! That is something I can not explain but lying on my bed as my bottom cools down quite a bit finally, I am so wet between my legs that I can't stop my fingers from going down and sliding into my slot and I find myself thinkin of how I looked to Pete and my father as she spanked me and about the very pleased look on her face when she is cuddling me after and the look on dad's face with his pants all swollen up in his lap while he watched the naked dance I did right after, and despite my flaming bottom I have these really terrific orgasms and just flood my quim and my upper legs. And these orgasms are much longer when she has used the Lexan and given me these longer spankings than they ever were when I was getting spanked with the hairbrush. So that is something else I associate with Lexan spankings that I bet a lot of other girls and boys would say they feel too when they get spanked with the Lexan. Nadine

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Nadine--picture of Lexan paddle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:37:34 12/01/25 Mon Hi. This is a picture of the Lexan paddle mom bought to use on us some time ago. Dad wrapped the handle in black tape making a nice thick handle for mom to grip comfortably, and he left the hole uncovered so mom could hang it on a nail on the pantry door in the kitchen where everyone coming in there can see it. This always starts a lot of conversations with friends who visit about the paddle and the spankings she gives us, which mom loves and enjoys, especially if Pete or I are there to blush to our roots as she talks about how long she can spank us with it without marking or bruising our bare bottoms. She loves to tease us doing that especially if it is any of our school friends who have noticed it. Groan! Nadine Nadine

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Nadine--Whoops forgot to put in the link [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:40:00 12/01/25 Mon Here it is. https://mastercontrolstoyshop.com/products/switch-plus-otk-lexan-spanking-paddle

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Dimmerdork to Nadine [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:25:41 12/01/25 Mon That’s smaller than mine…more designed for over-the-knee use. Mine is from Cane-iac, a bit larger, and works well with the recipient bent over a sofa or chair, or lying over a stack of pillows across a bed. I’m sorry your paddle is on public display like that…seems a bit over the top to me. My mentees had a special place where their instruments of correction were kept…away from prying eyes - and their inevitable questions, but a place where they’d have to see them, and handle them, each and every day, as a reminder of what happens when poor choices are made, and where they were also reminded of where and how they’d be used… You see, those implements were kept in their panty drawers, and they were made to remove their outer clothing themselves, were lectured - wearing only proper underthings, if they knew what was good for them, and were them made to fetch the required implement themselves…assume the requisite position…and would then hear themselves ask, in a trembling voice…”Pplease, Ssir…pplease ppull mmy ppanties ddownn…”😭😭😭

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Dimmerdork to Nadine [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:40:02 12/01/25 Mon Here’s mine - https://www.cane-iac.com/items/acrylic~lexan-paddles/lexanjr-detail.htm

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: EmilyC [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:38:02 12/01/25 Mon Nadine -- I'm finally beginning to get what happens to me after a spanking -- and you described it totally! I"m a year older than you but I guess ignorant cause I"ve been getting the need to touch after a spanking for months now and I didnt' know why or what it was. And if dad or my uncle decide to take off all my clothes and one of my boy cousins is there, it really makes those feelings strong! But maybe part of it is the loss of control over my own self. Like having to be naked or panties down in front of them for the lecture and not wanting to be bare or not wanting them to see me and my bare body, but not having any say in it. And yeah, mom loves to talk to other moms about how she spanks us and how good it is for us. But I don't want them to see me get spanked.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Douglas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:17:31 12/05/25 Fri I might be unusual in that I don't get an erection during the spanking, I just think it hurts and that I'm hating it. But then after I cry in bad my feelings often turn to horniness. I have never quite understood why this happens. My guess is that my brain is trying to make something painful into pleasure. I have heard it said there is a fine line between pleasure and pain.

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Jeff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:04:02 12/04/25 Thu Emily , do you think your mom knows spankings get you excited and that you masturbate after? As a boy it was impossible to hide my excitement because from 13 - 16 I always had an erection pop out when mom pulled my underpants down. She knew I jerked off after my spanking because she caught me a couple times. Are you ever spanked in front of your mom’s friends? My mom has two friends, one from out of town who used to see me get spankings pretty much every time she spent the night and her other friend who used to show up when I was in for a spanking. They both would comment on my stiff penis and tease that I obviously LIKED getting spanked which was not true ! Probably like when you get spanked in front of men/boys and can’t stand them seeing your pussy and boobs but there’s nothing you can do about it. Any time her one friend spent the night I knew I was going to be spanked (at least once) and I hated that she liked mom to spank me in the diaper position, on my back, legs up for the wooden spoon. Having the lady watch me exposed made my penis hard and she would smile and comment. In that position my stiff dick would be against my belly and she’d say, “Look at it twitch!” I had to see her watching me squirm and cry under the spoon and when the sting got bad my penis would slowly deflate, getting smaller and smaller, and she’d laugh “not such a big boy now, eh?” After my spanking dance mom would make me stand in front of her friend and slowly hand slap my sore buns. Seeing the lady smirking at me would bring back my erection and more comments. Sometimes mom would send me off saying, “You can go to your room now and play with your TOY." Like you, I’d masturbate as I felt the humiliation of being exposed and spanked in front of mom’s friends. Do you ever have to hear comments?

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Jani [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:36:18 12/02/25 Tue Dimmer, I’m curious about the mentees you spanked. Young women actually spanked to real tears etc? All with the shame ritual of asking to be bared etc? My spankings were otk bare with hand EXCPET for rare ultra serious spankings the lexan paddle was used. Close to the size of yours. But we only received 6 to 12 swats. Definitely high. level sting and plenty of tears. But what I hated most was we had to bend over with hands on our knees, bare behind out. It was humiliating because I could feel my vagina well exposed. Plus, pretty much every SWAT made me jump/rub and then I’d have to bend myself over again. It felt like I was sticking my burning buns out like, here “spank this."

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Dimmerdork to Jani [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:07:52 12/03/25 Wed Yes, that’s exactly what happened…

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:20:28 12/04/25 Thu Hi Jani. Till what age were you spanked and how often? What outer clothing would you be wearing?

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Jani [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:09:44 12/04/25 Thu Louise, I got my last paddling at 15. I always had a top on but was naked below my waist, hence my extreme shame at having my pouch poking out between my thighs. Dimmer, I was disappointed in your one line response. My girlhood spankings affected me such that as an adult I’ve chose to play with two men. I was hoping to compare notes regarding your experiences with women like me. Perhaps next time?

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Dimmerdork to Jani [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:27:40 12/04/25 Thu Sorry for the short answer…I was a bit pressed for time, and didn’t want your post to go without being acknowledged. The young lady I mentored was the first in her family to attend college, and was told she’d never succeed. Determined to prove the nay-sayers wrong, she also knew herself well enough to realize that she had no chance of doing so absent some form of accountability, so she sought it out online. She went from being a follower of the wrong crowd to a leader of the right one, and graduated with honors. Along the way, however, especially early on, she made some very poor decisions, in some very serious ways - admitted DUI, shoplifting, academic procrastination, texting while driving - accident resulting….all of which resulted in appropriately serious consequences, of the strict, very formal, old-fashioned variety, designed to thoroughly punish - mentally and emotionally as well as physically…truly dreaded corrections, aimed to guarantee that she’d think two, three, or four times if she ever considered repeating such behavior. So what’s your backstory?

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Louise Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:33:14 12/10/25 Wed How frequently were you spanked?

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride Author: Nadine to Jeff and Emily [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:19:23 12/04/25 Thu Jeff, I just found your note. For some reason it does not show up in the list of responses, but if you open my original post there it is below that. Weird! Anyway, your mother sounds like a carbon copy of mine in that she clearly enjoys spanking you and teasing you and telling others about your spankings. In your case, your mother clearly delights in spanking you in front of her two friends and even spanks you in the diaper position in front of that one lady friend and then marches you back after you have been crying awhile to stand in front of her while she hand spanks you while you get hard again. I am glad that so far my mother has not done anything like that yet, but I do feel she is going to spank me pretty soon in front of that one couple, the one where the mother spanks her children too and likes to talk about it. I have a feeling it is just a matter of time until she brings her children here on a Saturday or Sunday and we'll all end up getting spanked. The other evening she was here for dinner and Pete was due a spanking at his bedtime and the lady said she had already ordered a Lexan and couldn't wait to try it on her kids. And Emily, love, you also seem to have a mother who clearly enjoys spanking you at 16. How often does she spank you now and what does she use on you? Nadine