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Subject: Re: Your opinion

Author:
laura82

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Date Posted: 05:22:05 12/01/25 Mon
In reply to: Mona 's message, "Your opinion" on 12:03:14 11/30/25 Sun

Hi Mona

I'm not a fan of non consenual spanking. There is almost always a better alternative. That said if parenst act in what tehy genuinely believes is the childs best interest you cant go too wrong. I've got friends who were beaten abusively. They think their parents were wrong and would never do it to their own children but they don't hate them for it.
Attitudes have changed here in England. When I was growing up everyone was spanked even if the didn't want to admit it. If someone found out you got it they were more likely to ask what you'd done than suggest you were abused.
Nowadays if you even admit the possibility of getting a slap people treat you as a victim.
I overheard my baby brother and a mixed group of friends talking about it when the were all about 16. One girl admitted she had never been smacked and the others teased her for being spoilt. That was abt 2008.

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[> Subject: Re: Your opinion

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Angela
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Date Posted: 11:56:48 12/01/25 Mon

Mona,

Your question is the type of thing I wish there was a lot more of on this forum. Instead it is loaded with fabricated stories of a sexual sadistic encounters with minor children. I strongly suspect that most of these are written by people who were never spanked as children.

There has been for several decades an organized anti-spanking movement. They promote the idea that spanking traumatizes children, leading to psychological wide widespread social disorders. A leading anti-spanking zealot has even claimed the anti-spanking movement will end war!

I am a Gen X grandmother. My parents believed in spanking. And in those days they even had paddling in my Catholic grade school. At no time did I ever feel traumatized by spankings, though at times I felt one might be unfair.

Our first child was born in 1999. Both my husband and I believe in spanking for serious misbehavior. And our children were spanked. I hated it, but did not shirk from my duty. I see no signs the kids were traumatized by it