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>Ok here's some advice from an old man. > >Give yourself a break. Getting mad at yourself is not >going to help matters at all. In fact, the more angry >you are at yourself, the more likely you'll use bad >judgement in the future. > >It sounds to me like you act on your impulses instead >of thinking about your actions before you do them, >then get mad at yourself because of it. So if this is >something you've gotten in trouble for in the past, >instead of acting on impulse, think and ask yourself... > > "Is what I'm about to do going to be worth the >spanking I know I'm going to get?" > >I was still getting my bare butt spanked at fifteen >and I hated getting spanked and knew that was going to >be what would happen before I ever committed the act >that got me in trouble. When I started using my brain >instead of acting on impulse, I stopped getting in so >much trouble. I taught my own kids to think with >their brains and not their impulses. From the time >they were ten, I told them they were too old for >spankings, but as long as they continued to do the >things they knew they would be getting their bare >butts spanked for, then I would continue to spank >them. I reminded them of that with every spanking they >got after that. Finally when my daughter was eleven >and son was twelve, they got it through their heads, >THEY Were the cause of the spankings they got, not me. >When they realized that, I never needed to spank them >again. In my case, even after my last spanking at >fifteen, spanking was still on the table as a >punishment. So I just decided to stop doing the things >I got in trouble for altogether. > >At your age you're too old to be spanked, but you >should realize, they will continue to spank you as >long as you continue to do the things they will spank >you for. So think about it and ask yourself. "Is this >worth a spanking?" If for some reason, you think it's >actually worth it. Go ahead and do it and accept your >punishment instead of mentally beating yourself up. If >you feel it isn't worth it. Then don't do it. > >I don't want to be preachy. I hope this helps.
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