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Subject: Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical


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Date Posted: 15:50:52 05/02/25 Fri
In reply to: Denice to Debbie--the Hypothetical fleshed out 's message, "Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical" on 14:26:49 05/02/25 Fri
 Hello Denice,

You've added some interesting details, lol. It's actually completely different than I had pictured in my head, but different doesn't necessarily mean bad.

I had imagined something closer to my real life situation, where I hadn't had any spankings from 9 to 14. Then, we re-introduced them, and my mom needed a confidant. So, you're the only one who knows about my new discipline regime. The reason I was thinking in that direction was because our conversation had been about me trying to figure out if getting a spanking from someone besides my mom would create different kinds of feelings about it. So, I guess I thought a familiar adult, but one who hadn't spanked me before, would be ideal. Of course, I didn't say any of that. I didn't even really have it straight in my head, until your scenario went on a different direction. Honestly, I find both interesting. Either way, I'm guessing the metaphorical Debbie is going to get her bottom roasted, lol. (And it's quite fair that she would. Worrying my mom, or a family friend, like that, would definitely be a spankable offense. I doubt I would do something in real life, but mistakes happen.)

I do have one request though. I really don't like the complete nudity. I understand that it isn't a sexual thing in this context, but I have body issues, like most other 16 year old girls, and I would find being purposely completely naked to be not just embarrassing, but humiliating. I went round and round on this issue with Cindy and Emma. They thought it just added to the child's vulnerability and made the spanking experience more intense. I'm telling you that it would not do that for me. If the person punishing me humiliated me on purpose, then I would not feel safe, and the punishment would not be effective. I would feel angry and scared, and definitely not receptive to being punished or forgiven.

I'm not saying every child would feel that way, but I know I would. So, please don't include that in the scenario. It would be a distraction from the whole point of this thought exercise. In real life, when I get sentenced to a spanking, I pretty much accept that it's going to happen. If someone tried to strip me naked, especially someone NOT my mom, I would not accept it, and I'd probably physically fight back. So, let's just not go there, please?

Sorry if I sounded kinda strident, but it's a big deal for me. I should have mentioned it before, but it didn't even occur to me.

I'm looking forward to whatever you come up with. I hope you have fun at your Happy Hour. 😉

Hugs, Debbie
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