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Subject: Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical Author: Denice to Debbie--the Hypothetical fleshed out [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 14:26:49 05/02/25 Fri In reply to: Denice 's message, "Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical" on 01:58:59 05/02/25 Fri Debbie’s Hypothetical Situation “Um, I have a kind of weird idea. Please feel free to say no, but would you describe how you would spank me, if you had permission? I'm picturing it this way, you're a family friend who I've known since I was little. My mom has to go out of town for a week, and though I don't need a babysitter, she doesn't want me alone for that long. So, she asks if you will come and stay with me. You've always been more like a friendly aunt, and this is the first time you've had direct supervision over me. My mom gives you authority to discipline me, but nobody thinks you will actually need it, until I do get in some kind of trouble. That kind of mixes the friend/authority figure idea. Let's say that I was an hour late coming home, and I didn't call you or answer your calls. Laura and I played out that scenario before.” Alright, Debbie, my lovely friend, let’s add now a few facts to that hypothetical that make the actions we need to discuss and that situation more credible (that is, a situation that ends with my spanking of a 16-year-old girl as her “adopted Aunt”). Let’s assume as an important fact here that you have always been very fond of me and really enjoyed having me take care of you over the years even though I tended to be somewhat stricter with you than your mother. You didn’t mind the fact that I was stricter with you because you always felt comfortable and “safe” when you stayed with me and you loved the fact that I took you out to restaurants and zoos and parks that you really enjoyed and would play board games and such with you on our evenings together. And let’s also add here that your mother used to spank you from time to time but not often, but when she felt you needed it, but you found that I, your “Aunt” tended to spank you more often than she did when I felt you needed one, and even though you realized that as a fact, you still genuinely looked forward to the times when I would take care of you. Now let’s add a word here in this hypothetical about the spankings you got from your mother when you were ages 5 to nine, and those you got from me, your Aunt, during those years, and the differences still applied to the much fewer spankings you got from her as you got older, and to the very few you got from me when you were between nine and eleven. (Let’s say that the last time I spanked you before the time we are now discussing in this hypothetical was when you were twelve). Let’s say that as an overview, in all those years, when your mother spanked you, the spankings were pretty much the same--always short and sweet. She would bare your bottom only, put you over her knee and spank you briskly until you started to cry or were on the verge of crying, and then she’d stop, give you a few minutes of hugs and kisses and send you off to your bed to cry it out and that was that. Now let’s also add here that you do remember well that when I, your Aunt, spanked you when you were six to nine, and when I spanked you a very few times in those years when you were 10 to 12—you do remember vividly that my spankings of you were always different than those by your mother. First, I always took off all your clothes to spank [like Laura’s mother and aunt do with her]. Also, I always lectured you for a bit about why you were being spanked while you had to stand naked in front of me—which always caused you a lot of blushing and squirming, but that was part of my spankings of you that your mother did not do. Then you recall very well tha,t unlike your mother, I never seemed rushed the way your mother spanked. ( She was always, “Let’s do this and get it over with!”). With me, you knew I always took more time spanking you, and while I spanked not as hard as her for most of the spanking, I did spank longer and just as hard as her near the end of my spankings and I spanked until you came off my knees bawling hard and dancing up and down in place for a bit before I then took you into my arms to comfort you. Another important thing here. My spankings of you were always followed by a much longer period of comfort and hugs from me than you got from your mother, and whenever you thought later about the spankings I gave you, you vividly remember as much as they hurt how wonderful it felt to be held by me in your lap, chest to chest while you were still naked, straddling my lap while I held and stroked and comforted you. And you remember how great that felt and how that always seemed to make my spankings of you seem somehow “better spankings” than those you got from your mother, even though I spanked you longer and made you cry a lot more than she did. Now that will be the end of the preliminary setup for the hypo to which you would like me to respond. You are now a sixteen-year-old girl living with your single mother and I, the longtime friend of you and your mother, viewed by you as your “adopted Aunt”, have been asked to let you stay with me for a week while your mother has to go out of town, which I am glad to do. I genuinely enjoy having you visit and I look forward to us having some fun together. And this is when the curfew issue comes up that I will have to deal with. So, we’ll stop here for now (time problem—I have some things I have to take care of and I have a Happy Hour with friends at 5:30 to 8 PM), but I will at some point soon respond directly now to this hypothetical. That may not be until late this evening or tomorrow. I hope the additions to the hypo I have added here round out the players and make good sense, but let’s see how my direct answer as to how I’d handle the curfew situation you posed works. Love to you, Denice [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Subject Author Date Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical Debbie To Denice 15:50:52 05/02/25 Fri Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical -- Denice to DebbieJust, 19:43:22 05/02/25 Fri Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical -- Debbie to Denice, 20:36:24 05/02/25 Fri