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Subject: Taken into opposite sex change room


Author:
Dave
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Date Posted: 00:34:55 11/12/25 Wed
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Hello all,

Kind of inspired by the tomboy thread. Any experience with this? Were you taken into the opposite change room when going and what was it like? Do you recall it fondly?

I have experience with both sides of this. I'll start by saying I recall being taken into the women's room by my female relatives and babysitters up until around age 7 or so. This was both at the local pool and the park bathroom. I got to see some women and girls in various stages of undress which was very educational and interesting in the l ast few years.

I found girls in the men's seemed to last longer in terms of age. When my uncle took my cousin and I to the pool she was taken into the mens until age 10. I thought it was very unfair that she got to see all the naked guys for so long.

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Mally
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Date Posted: 00:42:28 11/12/25 Wed
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I never experienced this. The only memory I have of being nude in front of the opposite sex in a changing room was when I was age 12. I didn't properly learn how to swim when younger so my mother enrolled me in a session run at my local swimming venue. Every other kid was much younger than me and I remember seeing the mother of a young boy in the changing room staring straight at me when I was undressed. I didn't notice her at first and forgot she was there!!

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Author:
spelvin
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Date Posted: 03:13:18 11/12/25 Wed
Author Host/IP: 72.78.201.247

I have a couple of reverse CFNM stories for you:

Number one:

After junior high baseball practice, the coach asked Joseph (2023, Voy 206801) to take the bases to the equipment room. The only route to the equipment room was through the girls’ locker room.
He was unabashedly watched by the cheerleaders, who were fresh out of the shower.

All twelve cheerleaders rushed to Joseph’s aid when he slipped and fell.
Some of the girls helped him back up while some helped him gather up the bases, “not even concerned about their nudity.”

Number two:

Where Patrick (2023, Voy 206801) attended high school, he was so girl-shy that he could not even talk to a girl without stuttering.
“I think girls thought I was kind of cute, because of how harmless I was to them.”
One day during the volleyball season, Patrick stayed after school to tend to some scholastic matters.
A girl came to his desk and requested help.
When the two neared the girls’ locker room door, another girl came out and joined the first girl in pushing him inside.
There he was greeted by a very saturated, very feminine, and very underclad volleyball team.
“Don’t be shy.” “Do you like what you see?”
Patrick concludes, “They knew I was not a threat so they felt empowered.”

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Author:
Burton
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Date Posted: 16:21:18 11/12/25 Wed
Author Host/IP: 99.20.103.210

>Hello all,
>
>Kind of inspired by the tomboy thread. Any experience
>with this? Were you taken into the opposite change
>room when going and what was it like? Do you recall it
>fondly?
>
>I have experience with both sides of this. I'll start
>by saying I recall being taken into the women's room
>by my female relatives and babysitters up until around
>age 7 or so. This was both at the local pool and the
>park bathroom. I got to see some women and girls in
>various stages of undress which was very educational
>and interesting in the l ast few years.
>
>I found girls in the men's seemed to last longer in
>terms of age. When my uncle took my cousin and I to
>the pool she was taken into the mens until age 10. I
>thought it was very unfair that she got to see all the
>naked guys for so long.

Personnaly my sister and I were always taken to the changing room by the same sex parent. But I was aware it went on because I saw it. To be honest, prior to puberty, I barely noticed. I can verify that little boys stoped going in with mom at about 7 or 8. Dads would generally take girls in with them until age 10 or even 11 if there was absolutely no one who could accompany the child in to the appropriate changing area.

I can remember a specific instance when I was 12. A dad brought his 9 year old daughter with him to change. This man, unlike other dad's, did nothing to redirect the child's attention away from those around her. He was oblivious to her gawking. And likewise, all the older teens and men in the changing room seemed oblivious to the girl as well; including my own dad. I actually thought there was something wrong with me for being uncomfortable! It was different times.

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Author:
Dave to Burton
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Date Posted: 16:31:15 11/12/25 Wed
Author Host/IP: 108.236.209.113

>>Hello all,
>>
>>Kind of inspired by the tomboy thread. Any experience
>>with this? Were you taken into the opposite change
>>room when going and what was it like? Do you recall it
>>fondly?
>>
>>I have experience with both sides of this. I'll start
>>by saying I recall being taken into the women's room
>>by my female relatives and babysitters up until around
>>age 7 or so. This was both at the local pool and the
>>park bathroom. I got to see some women and girls in
>>various stages of undress which was very educational
>>and interesting in the l ast few years.
>>
>>I found girls in the men's seemed to last longer in
>>terms of age. When my uncle took my cousin and I to
>>the pool she was taken into the mens until age 10. I
>>thought it was very unfair that she got to see all the
>>naked guys for so long.
>
>Personnaly my sister and I were always taken to the
>changing room by the same sex parent. But I was aware
>it went on because I saw it. To be honest, prior to
>puberty, I barely noticed. I can verify that little
>boys stoped going in with mom at about 7 or 8. Dads
>would generally take girls in with them until age 10
>or even 11 if there was absolutely no one who could
>accompany the child in to the appropriate changing
>area.
>
>I can remember a specific instance when I was 12. A
>dad brought his 9 year old daughter with him to
>change. This man, unlike other dad's, did nothing to
>redirect the child's attention away from those around
>her. He was oblivious to her gawking. And likewise,
>all the older teens and men in the changing room
>seemed oblivious to the girl as well; including my own
>dad. I actually thought there was something wrong with
>me for being uncomfortable! It was different times.

So she was pretty much free to look at any guy she wanted? That was like my cousin. My uncle would strike up a conversation with some friends so we'd be in there for a long time. She could pretty much wander around and take in the sights.

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Author:
Burton
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Date Posted: 17:00:17 11/12/25 Wed
Author Host/IP: 45.84.107.182

>>>Hello all,
>>>
>>>Kind of inspired by the tomboy thread. Any
>experience
>>>with this? Were you taken into the opposite change
>>>room when going and what was it like? Do you recall
>it
>>>fondly?
>>>
>>>I have experience with both sides of this. I'll start
>>>by saying I recall being taken into the women's room
>>>by my female relatives and babysitters up until
>around
>>>age 7 or so. This was both at the local pool and the
>>>park bathroom. I got to see some women and girls in
>>>various stages of undress which was very educational
>>>and interesting in the l ast few years.
>>>
>>>I found girls in the men's seemed to last longer in
>>>terms of age. When my uncle took my cousin and I to
>>>the pool she was taken into the mens until age 10. I
>>>thought it was very unfair that she got to see all
>the
>>>naked guys for so long.
>>
>>Personnaly my sister and I were always taken to the
>>changing room by the same sex parent. But I was aware
>>it went on because I saw it. To be honest, prior to
>>puberty, I barely noticed. I can verify that little
>>boys stoped going in with mom at about 7 or 8. Dads
>>would generally take girls in with them until age 10
>>or even 11 if there was absolutely no one who could
>>accompany the child in to the appropriate changing
>>area.
>>
>>I can remember a specific instance when I was 12. A
>>dad brought his 9 year old daughter with him to
>>change. This man, unlike other dad's, did nothing to
>>redirect the child's attention away from those around
>>her. He was oblivious to her gawking. And likewise,
>>all the older teens and men in the changing room
>>seemed oblivious to the girl as well; including my own
>>dad. I actually thought there was something wrong with
>>me for being uncomfortable! It was different times.
>
>So she was pretty much free to look at any guy she
>wanted? That was like my cousin. My uncle would
>strike up a conversation with some friends so we'd be
>in there for a long time. She could pretty much
>wander around and take in the sights.

Exactly! This guy was too busy fussing with his own bathing suit to look after her. Which brings me to a related point I wanted to bring out. As I stated, the guys in the locker room were oblivious to this little girl for the most part. She wandered around with her eyes as big as saucers. I did see a couple of men give each other a wry smile as if to say, "isn't that cute, she doesn't know what to make of this". They seemed to find it endearing. Like I said, different times.

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Author:
Dave to Burton
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Date Posted: 17:18:11 11/12/25 Wed
Author Host/IP: 108.236.209.113

>>>>Hello all,
>>>>
>>>>Kind of inspired by the tomboy thread. Any
>>experience
>>>>with this? Were you taken into the opposite change
>>>>room when going and what was it like? Do you recall
>>it
>>>>fondly?
>>>>
>>>>I have experience with both sides of this. I'll
>start
>>>>by saying I recall being taken into the women's room
>>>>by my female relatives and babysitters up until
>>around
>>>>age 7 or so. This was both at the local pool and
>the
>>>>park bathroom. I got to see some women and girls in
>>>>various stages of undress which was very educational
>>>>and interesting in the l ast few years.
>>>>
>>>>I found girls in the men's seemed to last longer in
>>>>terms of age. When my uncle took my cousin and I to
>>>>the pool she was taken into the mens until age 10. I
>>>>thought it was very unfair that she got to see all
>>the
>>>>naked guys for so long.
>>>
>>>Personnaly my sister and I were always taken to the
>>>changing room by the same sex parent. But I was aware
>>>it went on because I saw it. To be honest, prior to
>>>puberty, I barely noticed. I can verify that little
>>>boys stoped going in with mom at about 7 or 8. Dads
>>>would generally take girls in with them until age 10
>>>or even 11 if there was absolutely no one who could
>>>accompany the child in to the appropriate changing
>>>area.
>>>
>>>I can remember a specific instance when I was 12. A
>>>dad brought his 9 year old daughter with him to
>>>change. This man, unlike other dad's, did nothing to
>>>redirect the child's attention away from those around
>>>her. He was oblivious to her gawking. And likewise,
>>>all the older teens and men in the changing room
>>>seemed oblivious to the girl as well; including my
>own
>>>dad. I actually thought there was something wrong
>with
>>>me for being uncomfortable! It was different times.
>>
>>So she was pretty much free to look at any guy she
>>wanted? That was like my cousin. My uncle would
>>strike up a conversation with some friends so we'd be
>>in there for a long time. She could pretty much
>>wander around and take in the sights.
>
>Exactly! This guy was too busy fussing with his own
>bathing suit to look after her. Which brings me to a
>related point I wanted to bring out. As I stated, the
>guys in the locker room were oblivious to this little
>girl for the most part. She wandered around with her
>eyes as big as saucers. I did see a couple of men give
>each other a wry smile as if to say, "isn't that cute,
>she doesn't know what to make of this". They seemed to
>find it endearing. Like I said, different times.

Did she seem to be interested in any particular person? My cousin used to go down the aisles or to the showers to look for boys closer to her age. Failing that she was good to stare at the men too lol.

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Author:
Hmm
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Date Posted: 02:02:41 11/13/25 Thu
Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31

A slow forum suddenly has "new" member exchanging posts every 20 minutes? OK...

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Author:
curious
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Date Posted: 09:47:57 11/13/25 Thu
Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80

>A slow forum suddenly has "new" member exchanging
>posts every 20 minutes? OK...

you do know that it is possible for two people to be in the same forum at the same time and reply to each other's posts just minutes apart. i doubt there is any conspiracy here, if you know what i mean.

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Author:
Burton
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Date Posted: 13:46:38 11/13/25 Thu
Author Host/IP: 99.20.103.210

>A slow forum suddenly has "new" member exchanging
>posts every 20 minutes? OK...


Sorry, I didn't know a forum like this existed. I might have jumped the gun and shared too much too soon. Is there more of a normal rhythmn to this forum? I didn't mean to hijack anything. I do have some context to add to one of my earlier posts, then I will take a break. Maybe check back in over the weekend.

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Author:
Joe
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Date Posted: 07:31:37 11/16/25 Sun
Author Host/IP: 71.179.1.15

I was frequently taken into female changing rooms in France by my mother to be undressed. No one seemed to mind. I remember my older sister washing my hair in the shower and being the only boy. I was about 12-13, but probably looked a lot younger.

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Author:
Burton
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Date Posted: 18:00:54 11/16/25 Sun
Author Host/IP: 99.20.103.210

>I was frequently taken into female changing rooms in
>France by my mother to be undressed. No one seemed to
>mind. I remember my older sister washing my hair in
>the shower and being the only boy. I was about 12-13,
>but probably looked a lot younger.

Joe -

In France, what would be the general cut off age for children in the opposite sex changing room?

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Author:
Joe to Burton
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Date Posted: 03:49:58 11/17/25 Mon
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>Joe -
>
>In France, what would be the general cut off age for
>children in the opposite sex changing room?

So I never saw a boy older than probably 14 or 15 in the female changing rooms. With girls in the mens it seemed similar, although up until I was 14, I was usually in the feamle changing rooms. I don't think there was a strict age rule, but the segregation seemed to be for adults.
As a boy still in the care of older females it was not unusual.

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Author:
Burton
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Date Posted: 17:21:17 11/17/25 Mon
Author Host/IP: 99.20.103.210

>
>>Joe -
>>
>>In France, what would be the general cut off age for
>>children in the opposite sex changing room?
>
>So I never saw a boy older than probably 14 or 15 in
>the female changing rooms. With girls in the mens it
>seemed similar, although up until I was 14, I was
>usually in the feamle changing rooms. I don't think
>there was a strict age rule, but the segregation
>seemed to be for adults.
>As a boy still in the care of older females it was not
>unusual.

That is fascinating, thanks for sharing!

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Author:
Brian
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Date Posted: 01:47:18 11/17/25 Mon
Author Host/IP: 208.107.140.123

I remember a time when I went to the local YMCA with my friends. In the locker room, a man was drying his daughter's hair with a towel while she was sitting down wrapped up in another towel. I walked past them with my friends to a bay of lockers and changed into my workout clothes. When I finished, and walked back towards them I saw that she was standing up completely naked! She faced my friend and I with a big smile. Maybe she was too young to care. I'm guessing she was 3 or 4 at the time. I was 16.

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Author:
Burton
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Date Posted: 17:23:28 11/17/25 Mon
Author Host/IP: 99.20.103.210

>I remember a time when I went to the local YMCA with
>my friends. In the locker room, a man was drying his
>daughter's hair with a towel while she was sitting
>down wrapped up in another towel. I walked past them
>with my friends to a bay of lockers and changed into
>my workout clothes. When I finished, and walked back
>towards them I saw that she was standing up completely
>naked! She faced my friend and I with a big smile.
>Maybe she was too young to care. I'm guessing she was
>3 or 4 at the time. I was 16.

Oh yes, too young to care at that age.

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Author:
Tor
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Date Posted: 18:17:15 11/19/25 Wed
Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31

When I stayed with my dad in Germany for a summer, near an air force base, I frequented a local gym that was rather inexpensive for teens. I recall you just got a key deposit and could enter. I remember they had speedo off brand I wore in pool from lost and found and had a gym too.

I am guessing I was 12, and when I went into change room it had rows of lockers, and separate room with glass door to shower room. It was before puberty and I was not a shy boy. I just walked naked into shower and got sandblasted for 15 minutes with high water pressure. While showering a girl came in by herself and showered too. I was worried I was in wrong shower room, but infact I was not. I just saw her butt and walked out and they had a sauna too. I went in sauna for another 15 minutes as part of going there. One of the men in sauna was dad and she spoke to him and went to pool I guess.

I would see girls in mens room all the time in Germany.,

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Author:
Rich
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Date Posted: 11:54:58 12/14/25 Sun
Author Host/IP: 82.32.154.117

My experiences of this are all one-sided. I don't remember ever being taken into the women's changing room. My dad used to take my sister and I swimming every week, and we'd all go into the men's room together.

All my life, I've been used to being in men's rooms and seeing girls being brought in by male relatives. It's less common in the UK than it used to be. Most new swimming pools seem to have "changing villages" which are just rows and rows of unisex cubicles, but those pools which still have single sex changing rooms usually allow kids to use the opposite sex room with a parent up to age 8-10. So it does still happen in my experience.

Girls in the men's room who are too young to care just change with everybody else. Older ones tend to shower with their swimsuits on and find somewhere private to change. Some look around with curiosity at boys and men who are showering and changing, others seem to take it in their stride and treat it as normal. Guys' reactions to this vary similarly, some cover up, others don't seem to care.

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Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 16:07:44 12/19/25 Fri
Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31

I saw both while you were mostly in boys room. I had same babystitter growing up and often same routine. When under 8 she always took me to beach and I played naked on beach and seemed normal at time. When leaving though under 8 she would always rinse me off in girls room. It was sometimes me and her and sometimes others. We always showered together without any fuss at the time.

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Anon
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Date Posted: 06:01:07 12/23/25 Tue
Author Host/IP: 76.195.201.31

For me I can relate but I was a gym rat growing up to blow off boy energy at high levels. I would see females in boys room and can not recall using womens room past 7 maybe.

I had a lot of routine as a kid and every summer I did summer sports in a day camp and later a volunteer in late teens. At summer camp I helped with younger class from 14-16 with my best freind. We grew up doing this each summer and always showered together.

A disabled boy and mom always showered him in boys room. This was no issue and we would walk right by her often naked and get dressed and go home at end. We were kind to him and a fun kid actually so we got along and were real friends in our small group so the lack of privacy was accepted. What happened though is a few sisters came in since mom was in there too and changed boys under 7 or 8 and we would walk by them nude too. Total class was 12 so we all knew each other too well. It was 70s and like that it seemed. What did make me blush is young mom brought her boy in and they assigned me as his buddy for orientation. This mom walks right in boys room with us and was not shy at all. I did blush but got over it. It was more like I was attracted and others were "moms".

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