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Subject: Re: A question for the moms


Author:
Jayne
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Date Posted: 00:38:07 01/17/26 Sat
Author Host/IP: 148.252.158.24
In reply to: Philip 's message, "A question for the moms" on 19:29:46 01/16/26 Fri

>Came across this site while Googling. It looks like
>there are some women/moms on here that might be able
>to answer this question, because I'm stumped.
>
>I am divorced and remarried. My current wife has been
>in my children's lives since they were 5, 3, and 1.
>Their bio mom has struggled with mental and substance
>issues and has always been in and out of their lives.
>She is doing better now and the kids, 14, 12, and 10
>currently, stay with her a few days a month. Bio mom
>has some jealousy toward my current wife and her role
>in the kids lives.
>
>Bio mom recently took my 14 year old son for his
>yearly checkup. Once there, my son refused to let bio
>mom go back to the exam room. He actually took the
>option of having a medical assistant present over his
>mother with my permission by phone. Bio mom was hurt,
>furious, and blamed my current wife.
>
>Bio mom called me later in tears telling me that she
>and my son argued about it all the way home. They were
>still arguing as they came in the door when my two
>younger daughters asked my son, "what's the big deal,
>mum (my current wife is British) sees you naked all
>the time".
>
>Bio mom was really crying at this point because that's
>when "she knew" my son loved my current wife more than
>her. That my current wife was his mother, not her.
>
>I told all of this to my wife later and she just gave
>me a knowing nod like she got it. I don't get it. Why
>was the issue of nudity and comfortableness the aha
>factor in this?

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Author:
scamptoo
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Date Posted: 09:39:53 01/17/26 Sat
Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80

>Came across this site while Googling. It looks like
>there are some women/moms on here that might be able
>to answer this question, because I'm stumped.
>
>I am divorced and remarried. My current wife has been
>in my children's lives since they were 5, 3, and 1.
>Their bio mom has struggled with mental and substance
>issues and has always been in and out of their lives.
>She is doing better now and the kids, 14, 12, and 10
>currently, stay with her a few days a month. Bio mom
>has some jealousy toward my current wife and her role
>in the kids lives.
>
>Bio mom recently took my 14 year old son for his
>yearly checkup. Once there, my son refused to let bio
>mom go back to the exam room. He actually took the
>option of having a medical assistant present over his
>mother with my permission by phone. Bio mom was hurt,
>furious, and blamed my current wife.
>
>Bio mom called me later in tears telling me that she
>and my son argued about it all the way home. They were
>still arguing as they came in the door when my two
>younger daughters asked my son, "what's the big deal,
>mum (my current wife is British) sees you naked all
>the time".
>
>Bio mom was really crying at this point because that's
>when "she knew" my son loved my current wife more than
>her. That my current wife was his mother, not her.
>
>I told all of this to my wife later and she just gave
>me a knowing nod like she got it. I don't get it. Why
>was the issue of nudity and comfortableness the aha
>factor in this?

It could be because the bio mom hadn't seen your son naked or even partially naked in some time, whereas your current wife has seen him naked on many occasions.

Therefore with his bio mom he could feel like she is a stranger seeing him naked.

Maybe you could/should ask your son about this issue.

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