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Subject: Re: What is your DD/BDSM/spanking fluency?

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Brett

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Date Posted: 18:21:06 01/09/26 Fri
In reply to: Anna 's message, "Re: What is your DD/BDSM/spanking fluency?" on 21:32:33 01/08/26 Thu

Thanks, Anna. CNC is critical to the foundation of DD to me. In order for discipline to be authentic and effective, there must be genuine authority. The one being disciplined can't choose when, if and how they are to be held accountable. Just as critical is the trust you have in your husband, and that he is the disciplinarian you need. It sounds like when you get a spanking, it is always both fair and effective. Despite how much you hate the "fast" part while it's happening, the outcome is truly a positive. Knowing it was your husband's decision, and totally under his control is not the same feeling as you being the judge, jury and executioner of your own consequences. Chances are good that there will be no need for another spanking any time soon. But under the condition of knowing it can happen, your husband's discipline is always at least in the background of everyday life.

Spanking is at the core of the experience. Punishment is at its most tangible. What I've seen over the years is that most DD practitioners use mostly spanking as discipline because they are "spankos." I don't know how many have a CNC dynamic, but I would also like to see more discussion of the subject from those who live it.

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Re: What is your DD/BDSM/spanking fluency?	Kev	22:29:58 02/25/26 Wed