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Subject: Re: What is your DD/BDSM/spanking fluency?


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Anna
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Date Posted: 21:32:33 01/08/26 Thu
In reply to: Brett 's message, "Re: What is your DD/BDSM/spanking fluency?" on 18:12:52 01/08/26 Thu
 Thank you Brett.
Yes, recognition everyone is different is important. I am definitely a "spanko" for much of my life. My husband went along with the dominant role when I told him this was something I had to have in my life. After more than 14 years, I think he is settled in his role. I feel like we are just a little bit DD because we both feel strongly that I must be punished for real misbehavior that is unacceptable to my husband. My husband may start spanking sliwly ten or twelve times, but he always finishes with many fast spanks. I absolutely HATE the fast spanking when it's happening. I still scream and yell from it, so in the moment there is no enjoyment at all so never really identify as a masochist. Usually the day after a spanking, I feel differently, but quite simply it is because afterwards I appreciate having gotten a spanking, and especially appreciate that he knows when and how to do it.

The CNC topic is something I have been fascinated with for almost ten years. We are definitely in such a relationship. My guy is kind, but naturally assertive. Even before spanking, I could tell it annoyed him when I was bitchy, or especially if I nagged him. At first he was not eager to jump into spanking when I asked him to, but now I feel like when I need one he is very good at giving it at precisely the level I need. When he tells me to go over the knee, I never know how long it will be, nor do I ever have any say, but I trust him to spank me as he sees fit.

Are there others here who identify as "spankos" but somewhere more CNC than traditional DD?

Would the group like to share web or other resources on these categories?
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Re: What is your DD/BDSM/spanking fluency?Brett18:21:06 01/09/26 Fri
Re: What is your DD/BDSM/spanking fluency?Kev22:29:58 02/25/26 Wed

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