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Subject: Re: How did spanking come up between you and your significant other?

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Date Posted: 23:05:48 02/25/26 Wed
In reply to: Diana 's message, "Re: How did spanking come up between you and your significant other?" on 15:39:00 01/04/26 Sun

As I mentor select woman from time to time, in addition to have gf's, it is always the same. I need to get to know the woman, and her wants and needs. I I can discuss anything as an adult with love and understanding. I don't try to hide anything. And I am upfront and honest about myself.
This helps a woman feel comfortable about discussing such things as discipline. I'm very flexible, and I don't use discrimination. Everybody, and every family is different.
I just need to know where she is coming from. Same for any new relationship. If there is/was a discussion about the disciplining of children, I would say, They are your kids. Raise them the way you want to. I guess you could say that I am kind of detached early on.But I will still try to meet her needs, whatever they might be.
This is the way I always am when discussing personal matters. What do you want? What don't you want? What do you need? What are you open to? What do you want us to work on?
It's not all that much about me because I am very flexible and I am not judgemental. So we can just discuss things as adults. We don't have any arguments. I'm a whatever type of person. I know that if a woman wants me to be this way or that way, (altho me being disciplined is not a consideration), she will certainly let me know in due time.
I try and help her feel comfortable in discussing whatever.
This is my approach, anyways. I always feel comfortable in sharing my views and beliefs. She can feel comfortable asking me anything. Esp since I mentor select women, I have to be this way with them. I'm not real overbearing nor dominant. I try to be cooperative. This works best for me.

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