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Subject: Re: How did spanking come up between you and your significant other?

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James

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Date Posted: 11:13:23 01/05/26 Mon
In reply to: Anna 's message, "How did spanking come up between you and your significant other?" on 06:13:54 01/04/26 Sun

Katie and I sat down after our fourth date and discussed our sexual preferences and kinks. She told me that she liked to be spanked and I replied that she was in luck, because I liked to give spankings!

I spanked her for the first time that night. At first, these were fun, sensual spankings without any sort of disciplinary tone.

As our relationship progressed, she began expressing her desire to be more submissive and for me to give her rules to follow. We went slowly at first, trying to figure out how the dynamic would work between us.

About a year ago, we sat down together and wrote down the rules, punishments, and rewards. I’d say it was a pretty even split, 50% of the ideas came from me and 50% from her. After we had everything written up we both signed it as an acknowledgement of the agreement.

Since that time, we have been in a full DD relationship. I will add that for us it is just an expression of kink, so some might not call what we have a true DD dynamic, but it works for us.

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Re: How did spanking come up between you and your significant other?	Kev	06:30:18 02/26/26 Thu