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Date Posted: 23:21:18 03/11/02 Mon
Author: Stacy
Subject: Should it be considered cheating?

I recently married a man I met on line over two years ago. Our internet romance was brief - friendly but not gushy. We met a month and a half after we started communicating (when he had relocated to the state I was living in - this was in the works prior to us ever chatting on line). We had claimed "exclusivity" very early in our real relationship and we knew we were meant for each other and would be together for the rest of our lives.

Right now I am beside myself. We bought a house together and I found messages, letters, cards, mementoes, pictures from other women. That was OK because I figured it was all prior to us falling in love. However, it was not. Up until just a few short months ago there were still communications with several of them. I confronted him about it and at first he lied. I don't know what was in the latest communications, but I've read some of the former and all the mush and beautiful words he sent to them (one of them claimed to be his princess and he her handsome prince - only days before we were married). I hope and pray that the contents of his more recent letters was much, much different. I feel so betrayed. I have given so much to him, but I feel like it just hasn't been enough. He's chosen fantasy over reality - a "virtual affair". What worries me even more is that he travels a lot for business and lately it's even on the weekends. If he hasn't "committed" to me emotionally, I don't know why the physical part of it would be safe. Is it wrong for me to feel this way?

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