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Date Posted: 01:52:32 03/13/02 Wed
Author: Kate
Subject: Re: Should it be considered cheating?
In reply to: Stacy 's message, "Should it be considered cheating?" on 23:21:18 03/11/02 Mon

Why don't you try catching him in the act? I know it sounds a little silly and a lot like Dynasty, but then you will know the truth behind his "business trips". I work in a travel agency, and know that many meeting do run over weekends. It is cost effective for business to use the weekend discounts that weekend travel allows.

You ought to get the name of the hotel he will be staying at and call to see if he is there when he is supposed to be at a meeting. If the place is close enough for you to travel to yourself, maybe you should pay him a SURPRISE visit. It is not unreasonable or crazy to do it..people pay private investigators all the time to do the same thing. You need peace of mind. And if his words and actions aren't giving it to you, you need to find out for yourself.

Don't play the stupid game of pretending you are someone else on the computer to catch him that way. It is not the same thing, and you are then setting yourself up for more excuses and lies.

But you need to know for sure. And you need to settle this. there may be a good explanation, or he may just need to see that this is a serious issue and he is hurting you. He may only need to see that what he is doing is wrong and his contact with other women needs to end before it gets out of control. Good luck!!!

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