maybe age isn't the issue, but are you sure you are ready to settle down at such a young age? I have no question that you and she have developed feelings. But she is also a lot older and has probably been through mopre than you in life. I don't agree that it won't work (sorry sheila!) but don't rush into anything. you are so young...she was able to experience her 20's already - don't deny yourself any opportunities.