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Date Posted: Wed, June 25 2008, 16:29:13
Author: Don Poss
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Subject: Advice for the Troops coming home from Iraq/Afghn

Gents:

I was blessed with a terrific father-in-law. A WWII career Navy veteran. Rarely would Anthony talk about the war, but there were times, when the women were not in the room (that’s just how it was ladies), and when it was a significant “Pearl Harbor” type anniversary, he would tell me about his war. Twice his destroyers (squids think of their ship as their own) were torpedoed and sank. He floated around for more than a day each time before rescue. He said that we all knew that you could hear the bulkheads collapse as the boat sank in to the depths, but that when floating in the oil-slick waters you could also “feel” the bulkheads give way with a trimmer or shockwave through the water as the boat broke-up. During the Korean War, his destroyer was shelled and damaged so badly while sailing too close to a shore battery, and was in for repairs at Japan for six months. He also said the memories, in many ways, were like yesterday and that “his dream” was that he was asleep floating in water. The family did not know he was awarded a purple heart until he gave me his “military stuff” in a box. He knew his keepsakes would be treasured.

In a way, Anthony was telling me that veterans never forget what they experienced at war, and that it was okay. I do not think many veterans would push the magic-button that would erase their military years.

My point in this too long preamble was initially to ask what you would pass-on as advice to the current military returning home from war and reentering civilian life, as how to cope with “their war” in the years to come. I know we all care and worry for their safety and future. I will start it off with:

1. Find an association of fellow warriors who served and performed the same duties as you did. Join the association: Stay with it. And take care of each other.

Don Poss

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