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jieying

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Date Posted: 19:32:31 01/03/04 Sat

hua, watch ur english lah!!!!!

with regard to ur checklist.. i think everybody have different checklist, and sometimes one very very important factor can cover everything else. i also dunno wats my checklist, but sometimes maybe i think if we r both happy now tts wat matters?

some says that the most importatnt thing in a relationship is trust. some how i dunno abt all this self sacrificing business.. it just doesn't seem too realistic somemtimes.. and i gotta admit i am selfish, n there is jsut so much i would do for him!

and sometimes a lot of these stuff r only at the beginning of the relationship - ie. honeymoon period! but sometimes u just gotta feel comfortable wif the person i guess..

urgh.. maybe sometimes it's just that in ur heart, YOU JUST KNOW! shldn't u? sorry i'm still living in a movie world! hahaahhaah

but i think i really hate that 'obligation' thingy.. but i really wonder how many relationships have really deteriorated to mere 'obligations'! often parents tell us that there have to be a lot of 'ren3' in a relationship, and sometimes a lot of things r based on the kids, and such.. gawdd.. do u think in our century things have changed? *ponder* u won't believe the amount of divorce they have in aus! cos u noe i'm working in a solicitor's firm at the moment.. all those documents! the ppl r like married 3-4 times and divorced and such! *shake head*

i guess there IS true love, just whether u believe in it, and whether u "recognise" it when it comes ur way....

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