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Date Posted: 07:34:53 10/26/04 Tue
as we go thru different phase in life, we are hit by these mind boggling questions. like wat i'm reading in "sophie's world" now, the first question the philosopher asked was: "who are you?"
it comes down to a bad case of identity crisis. we lost direction in life, or more importantly, we forgot wats our aim and our goal in life, or if we do have an aim or goal, we wonder, whats the point of having that goal in the first place? is it all worth it in the end? what really matters? career, love, family, friends, money? self development?
i have always prided my family on being a very close knitted one. like the test mun just gave me (dear, i hope at least a few of my friends responded? i told them to email u directly) it drawn on me tt often, our family r the one we turn to when we r down, when we needed someone to show them they love us, and to assure us of our worth. of cos i can't leave out the financial factor ;p but i must say tt as we grow up, we are slowly realising how powerful this love is, and how much we shld treasure it. it's never too late, like wat mun said (in her blog?) better late than never! it's part of this self learning process we r putting ourselves thru, and it's especially tested when we meet big changes or crisis in life. most importantly, it is to emerge a stronger and better person, and to not look back with regrets.
ah. working. tts of cos a big step from what we used to be. we r shaken out of our usual routine, and thrown into sth we cannot comprehend. so sink or swim! the way i c it, one cannot have too much expectations, but it's like a slow self learning process.. we realise what we want in life, what we are good at, and what we should do to get the best combination.
ah i'm drifting. cannot think properly. too lazy.
in any case, yas, i hope u r feeling better now, u have shown great strength in the last one and a half year but shld u ever need us, we will always be here for u!!! hugz!
on another note....
hua, look like mun very busy.. lets do it without her! MUAHAHAHAHHAHA
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