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Date Posted: 18:46:56 12/18/03 Thu
wow, tts quite a bit of msgs left behind, and i think i'm a bit lost wif some of them..
first bit to kuangli, i din even noe u r attached! see lah, disappear from our group for so long then never update us somemore!!! who did u go korea wif? i wan to visit korea too, although u make it sound horrible, and i'm not into skiing. but then just like u said, wan to see other ppl's culture n livestyle. at least it's cheaper than japan mah!!! :P
i totally understand wat u mean by 'get on too fast, and needing a break to think'. i ALWAYS feel like tt, but of cos at the same time u will be thinking tt if u do tt u will be sad too. hrmp, life's like tt, it's all about choices, and we never noe if this step we r taking now is rite or wrong, but i do believe tt watever choice we make in our life, we shld never never look back n regret. cos tt will be the biggest mistake of our life! look ahead, and believe tt everything u do, there is a reason for it. =)
how did we get so philosophical? gosh, it's all stupid weihua's fault. hahaha.. i do agree wif yas on this, there is never balance between this giving n taking business. one party is always giving more, but soemtimes this person will complain n feel tt how come he/she is not receiving as much in return. but sometimes if he/she loves the other person enuf, he/she won't mind being the one who is giving more. so i guess it comes down to the fact whether u love him enuf? (okie, this might start off the question of "how much is enough?")
once, shaun told me this, to fall in love, u must feel that u r BLESSED and honoured to be loved by him/her. so if u think tt he/she is so good/eligible/etc etc, and why would he/she love u? then u r in love. shaun think ppl wif very high self esteem will find it very difficult to be able to fall in love, because u will never feel that the other person is better than u, and u will never feel tt u r 'honoured' to be loved by tt person. do u guys get wat i'm saying so far? sorry it's abit difficult to put it in words. but i think i do agree wif him. and i think sometimes i have too high a self esteem? do u guys think so?
i also think tt i dun wan to die not knowing what is LOVE. but i kinda gave up on tt notion, cos sometimes i think settling into 'comfortability' and being loved can be so sweet sometimes, u wonder y the hell u wan to go thru the pain of loving someone.
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so qi how's work? unbelievably i have worked for a month liao! albeit only 2 days each week. hehehe.. my weekend job so far only did once, and am doing this weekend too i think. applying for other jobs at the same time. did quite well for my exams so am going to apply for my job in spore next month!!!
wan to go NZ in Feb, but dunno how to save up enuf to go! sob sob.. anyone planning to visit me any time soon?? :P :P
kuangli, sorry hah i a bit lost. u doing hons yr now issit? so u will finish together wif hua they all? where u wan to do ur masters? have u tot abt wat u wanna do? i actually applied for my masters ard this period last yr, so u can start thinking abt it if u do wan to do it! =) it's a good time to get away, taking a yr break. but then at the same time, i did worry abt a lot of other things, cos now i'll be behind my peers. a masters at entry level is no value at all, it's just self satisfaction, at least tts wat i think :P anyway u HAVE gone to switz for a yr wat!!!! so not like u haven't "gone away" hehehehehe :P
very into 'gu ju ji' songs nowadays cos winson downloaded the newest album, really like it!!! check it out!! i'm still trying very hard to pick up cantonese, then cos at the same time winson they all speak a lot of hokkien, so i always get confused. SIGh.
did i tell u gals i actually have the whole set of harry potters here? hehehehehe my fren left it wif me when she went back for summer. oh oh i got this collection of LOTR pins!!! each pin cost $2, wif a newspaper coupon, and must collect everyday for 18 days. i took photo of it will upload it soon.. hehee.. playing wif my digicam everyday! yeah!!!!! ;P but i dun think i will watch LOTR so soon, cos here the cinemas no seat number one, buy tickets liao still mut go queue for good seats. DUH!
okie lah better run off liao, meeting Mr Ellis to go Art Gallery in awhile. it's FREAKING HOT today anyway n i'm melting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! till later~
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