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Subject: wat is love

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Date Posted: 00:38:19 12/19/03 Fri

goondo kong chayying...scold me for wat???
1)never too gd to go too fast unless both noe wat they wan...

2)abt the sad part...issit sad of no romance to go out wif or sad that u lost some1 who love u or some1 whom u love?

3)abt give n take: not possible to equalise but possible to give a selfless love to others, eg wat our parents and some special frens are showing to us.i realised that it is not possible to give the most of us to everyone; there is some special ones that we can do that only. search for the special one of urs and teh special one who can give u the most of his...love cant b forced in the first place, so no point blaming each other who gives each other the lesser. I rather wan love from the heart than the love that is ordered. so how much is enuff? only you know....

4)it is definitely a blessing to be loved, n ppl who have high esteem mayb will oni love some1 better than them. diff ppl have diff expectations from their other half. no one has teh right to sae who is right or wrong on that; the most impt thing is that YOU have to be very comfy wif your other half to begin wif and do not force your love, will never do ani good in long run, not oni u will b tired of it,ur other half will b suffering when he is ignored. ps. miss kong has extremely high esteem agreed? abt miss huang dilemna...no one can give u the right ans but urself. why are you happie? (coz u r loved or u r loving? or juz love the company?) why are you thinking of breaking? (tired of the rules of r/s and commitment and no urge to shower love?)what resist u from breaking? (the enjoyable company, the selfless love on u or the urge to love the one?)

the model ans can oni b found from urself: wat is ur true definition of love and r/s of urs. do not compare or seek the norm, for that will not reflect on wat u realli wan.
to me, a r/s shd be happie always and not have a bit of guilt or suffering or hardship.the nice things done on each other r from the urge of the heart, and touches not oni ur partner's but ur own heart and happiness will dwell from it. i am still living in my own fanstay.....

5)fear of commitment? i do not believe in this phrase if one finds his/her true love...i will cant waitto do everything and anithing for the person if i realli find the one. true for u?and if we realli love the person, we will b able to find excuses for some things our half never do and able to tolerate alot of things until the limit that we starting to love ourself more. so i believe taht the phhrase shd b rephrased to "fear of finding the wrong person and forced to commit"..

6)the main fear for me is that the guy does not know wat is a r/s and oni think of it as 2 person going out and enjoying each other company with minimum care and concern when needed.reason for that? love oneself more than the other, see ownself before the other, does not think of the other esp when it inconvience oneself.

wat is love? i am still waiting for the some1 to teach me and show me love.

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