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Subject: 談命運


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 11:59:36 08/18/05 Thu

對呀!在我眼中,世間一切禍福,不過是因果,惡果熟則受苦報,善果熟則受善報。我自己也當然經歷過人生的起跌,也不過是因果,我曾大病,曾開刀五次,最大一次的大病,我的反應是深深懺悔,我想過去世,我一定是做過很嚴重的壞事,才有這樣的報。而所謂煩惱即菩提,大苦大難對人有深刻的啟發,大病令我對病人生起深刻的體諒,反而令我發奮學醫,立志將來要拔人病苦。客觀來說我是失業多年,但其實我是留在家中照顧年邁有病的母親,雖然有志難伸,但一定程度來說,也是孝的表現,而且是對一個人意志的考驗,不要把利益放中間,一切的不如意都能克服過去,實踐了「窮而無悶」,君子「知進知退」的態度。是故回頭看,我對一切的不如意,都心懷感激,沒有受挫折的人,很難對別人生起慈悲心,生起體諒。而天天順景,生來富貴榮華的人,會有多我慢自負,目中無人,實在可想而知,是故苦是我的養份,是我的善緣。況且過去那麼多不如意,竟然沒有一天有缺乏的,更令我深深的相信星雲大師所說的「有佛法就有辦法」,聖嚴法師所說的「有道心,有衣食。」所言非虛,令我對佛法有無量的信心。若在命理來說,我一生最艱難的賽段已經跑完。也因為習醫以來,自行醫治,體質日佳,該死的流年沒有死,該患癌也沒有患癌,有因果故有命運,但就如我努力鼓勵人,每個眾生都可以自力改變命運的,是真正的自力更新,大家一起來努力吧。

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[> Subject: Re: 談命運


Author:
Krish
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Date Posted: 15:17:58 08/19/05 Fri

Though I've never met you, I can tell you're a very sincere and honest person from what you have written so far on this board. I really admire your attitude to life. Wish you the best of everything.

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[> [> Subject: Re: 談命運


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 10:17:50 08/20/05 Sat

感謝你,雖然我跟大家素未謀面,但日子有功,大家在交流著感情,都好像成了朋友。

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[> Subject: Almond兄~~看到你說一生最艱難的賽段已經跑完,也為你感到放心。一樣米養百樣人,有些人是俗語所說"憎人富貴厭人貧",所謂看見別人比自己好便妒忌,看見比自己差的便看不起別人,有著這樣想法的人內函已是很貧窮,就算他外在是富有的,在我眼中銀行戶口要有一億元的現金,還要有至少兩間豪宅的人,我才認為他是富有的人,所以我也是貧窮的人,雖然我是貧窮,但我活得很快樂和自由,我不在乎外在的一切,我只乎內在是否貧窮,我是相信人是有靈魂,一個貧窮的靈魂是沒有能力面對痛苦的,可悲的是人是逃不開生老病死的苦,不管你手中擁有什麼。最後祝福你身體健康及一切順利!^__^


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Date Posted: 02:48:33 08/21/05 Sun


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[> [> Subject: "談命運"


Author:
almond
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Date Posted: 09:16:48 08/21/05 Sun

謝謝祝福,其實生活無論順逆,也要勇敢面對,沒有逃避的餘地,世間上什麼物質都不是你的,唯有業力是你的,是故無論順逆,也得老實面對,不應怨天尤人,自暴自棄,我經常如是鼓勵人,況且吉凶福禍,不過自作自受,與人無攸。君子應有能伸的遠志,當然也有能屈的厚量,我遇過多少能伸而不能屈的人,結果都是自我折磨,心理上很不快樂,天氣也有陰晴,若我們只執著晴朗天,討厭雨天,心情一定不好受,況且日晴多時,也要雨水來調劑調劑,苦有時是調劑品,令人反省,令人珍惜。記得有段日子,在中醫診所當學徒,有一個阿婆腳有問題,我自覺的為她按摩,當時並不覺得自己卑躬屈膝或是拋下身段等,在我心中,只是覺得對病人不應生分別心,我只是應該做好自己的職責而已,佛的心不是不垢不淨的嗎?我也要學。最後感謝你的關心,我近月去了澳門營商,當個小老闆,請勿掛心。

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