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Subject: 情緒低落,Depression發作


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香城妖姬Eunice
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Date Posted: 00:08:13 05/17/04 Mon

諗諗下!又唔可以話Depression發作,因它已經跟了我差不多兩年,從未離開過。但近日發生的事情,令原來比較平靜的情緒,又再波動起來,抑鬱與狂噪的情況,各自各精彩,完全不受控制。

事件一)
因抗抑鬱的藥的輔作用令記憶力大退,就是在記性差的情況下,忘記了好友叮囑的一件事,為她帶來不必要的驚恐和擔心,令她身為同志的身份有可能因我的大意而暴光。心中的內疚,對自己的厭惡,揮之不去。她不常上網,但亦希望在此向她表示最深切的抱歉。

事件二)
在老人院的工作量已經很早超出了一個常人的極限,一星期工作6天,每天加班3至4個小時,星期日在家中繼續努力完成公司的工作,無論怎樣,工作依然做唔完。上星期的會議上,老闆當著其他院舍的同事面前對我大聲責罵,指責我不跟工序工作。坐在身邊的細老闆是指揮我依她的指示做事的人,竟一句不說出真實情況,成隻死貓我硬食了,求助無援。

事件三)
又有三位同事resign唔Do了,與我同界的同事走得七七八八了,還餘下兩個7月也會Resign,到時就只留下我了。

我好想走,但沒有本事走。以36高齡轉工已經困難,仲要得中五學歷,樣子不標緻,身材似大笨象,母親剛剛退休,沒有了收入對生活沒有安全感,姊妹也沒有比家用給母親,我給扎死了。

日後的路可以怎麼走,我暫時真的看不清,只能夠打算當老闆炒了我之後,可以怎樣追討。當他們知道我患上了情緒病後,還不停的打壓我,為難我,逼迫我,想我自動唔DO。

有沒有人知道保障婦孺條例中,女性每日工作時段不能超過幾多過鐘?

謝謝!

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[> Subject: See if this works to safeguard yourselves->


Author:
10
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Date Posted: 04:48:17 05/17/04 Mon

1/ There is no protection to woman, the legislation only protects children , young persons, pregnant women, persons of disability.

2/ No provisions as to limitations on duration of OT affairs.

Notice of OT must be given 48 hours in advance unless there is an emergency.

A schedule of working time must be given at beginnning of each month. If the nature of notice generally is on a weekly basis, it must be given 7 days in advance.

Usually, employer will not adopt this requirements. If anything goes to Tribunal, they will escape cos'it does not amount to serious misconduct .

3/ Your case could amount to a fault in operational requirements (32K(c) shown below). The fault is not yours,but they could recorded it for future use.
Find your way to proof it is instructed by others as for evidence of later use in a Tribunal. Also, you can make a copy for any instructions for OT. Since they had been given notice (had to be shown) by you that you are not emotionally fit for OT, you can sue them for damages ($)later if any "deterioration" "resulted" from OT. There is a case proved success in UK.

Expert evidence is needed for it if so.

The expenses of the litigation & employing an expert to show the deterioration and the causation (means resulted from OT) can be claimed from Legal Aid.

The notification of you to them that you have such emotional problem unfit for OT (together with the written advice given by doctor)should be shown by you later.

Of course, written evidence is better than oralones .





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Info for your kindly reference-



Employment Ordinance

s32K Reasons for the dismissal or the variation of the terms of the contract of employment

For the purposes of this Part, it shall be a valid reason for the employer to show that the dismissal of the employee or the variation of the terms of the contract of employment with the employee was by the reason of-
(a) the conduct of the employee;
(b) the capability or qualifications of the employee for performing work of the kind which he was employed by the employer to do;
(c) the redundancy of the employee or other genuine operational requirements of the business of the employer;
(d) the fact that the employee or the employer or both of them would, in relation to the employment, be in contravention of the law, if the employee were to continue in the employment of the employer or, were to so continue without that variation of the terms of his contract of
employment; or
(e) any other reason of substance, which, in the opinion of the court or the Labour Tribunal, was sufficient cause to warrant the dismissal of the employee or the variation of the terms of that contract
of employment.
(Part VIA added 75 of 1997 s. 4)






http://www.cklaw.org.hk/oncall/legalcase.htm

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[> Subject: 天無絕人之路,此處不留人自有留人處,不要被年齡和困境打倒了妳的勇氣,放下一切恐懼和抱怨,積極尋求出路,珍惜和爭取時間自我增值,不為外界一切事物影響,專心一致,天助自助者,生、老、病、死、富、貧、智及愚,只是來這人間的一場考驗,愚公也可以移山,最可怕不是山高,而是意志消沉,天將降大任於人,必先勞其苦餓其膚,今天讓妳遇上困難,也許上天要妳明天告訴別人,妳是怎樣捱過來,來勉勵後來者。


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Date Posted: 05:59:14 05/17/04 Mon


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Date Posted: 17:53:17 05/17/04 Mon


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[> Subject: Re: 情緒低落,Depression發作


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Date Posted: 19:26:01 05/18/04 Tue

其實, 我個個案和你差不多, 朋友剛找到工作, 我又快要面臨失業, 茫茫人海, 何處浮沉. 我想我己憂鬱多年了. 有時, 連看文件也看不入腦, 很苦. 又要面對考試, 壓力更大.

加油,比心機呀!
放棄, 就沒有明天, 努力, 堅持, 一定還是會有明天的.
雨過天晴嘛!

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[> Subject: (一)我想你的好友應該明白你不是故意的,或者致電給她講出你的歉意,嘗試了解一下事情發展,可能不是你想像一樣呢!這有助減低你對自我的內疚感,亦不用太過自責。


Author:
小鴿子
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Date Posted: 00:12:21 05/19/04 Wed


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[> Subject: (二)似乎是現今社會的通病,老闆很多時都作無理的指責,受氣的往往是打工一群,『氣』是受了,但若果還是要繼續面對工作的話,找個途徑去宣洩自己的情緒,傾談也好……氣球亦不能無上境地的入氣,很傷身心的。


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小鴿子
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Date Posted: 00:39:22 05/19/04 Wed


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[> Subject: (三)別看輕自己!工作崗位就好像戰場一樣,我們每日都在工作中作戰,有人捱不住,退下火線(那只是換個場地而矣!)而你背負著彈藥(熱誠、經驗)留守到最後一刻,要知道並不容易,別輕易放棄!


Author:
小鴿子
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Date Posted: 01:00:23 05/19/04 Wed


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Date Posted: 01:19:15 05/19/04 Wed


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[> Subject: You are very capability and clever individual. I believed you can solve all situations. HAPPY ALWAYS EUNICE !


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Date Posted: 11:22:53 05/19/04 Wed


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