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Subject: You can't justify yourselves

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Date Posted: 11:13:48 01/13/04 Tue
In reply to: Sam 's message, "人若只從門縫中看世界﹐又怎會看得見海之闊天之高﹖等到一天你能為自己打開那扇門﹐走出無謂的規範﹐自然會得見海闊天空。" on 22:20:22 01/12/04 Mon

I am still confused of some arguments suggested a free model of love (open relationship) , that people can have love and sex with many others while they hv partners (claimed as couples).

If their partner knows about this? Or simply cheated her?
What is meant by love if open relationship is prevailing?
While we have to respect others' preferences, what would you do if the trend spreads toward you & u partner?
Will u accept voluntarily? Join the Party ? Disgust of it?
Made it wider? Why not group sex if so? Why not a group of lovers living together changing partners days & nites as they want then? I can't figure out (1) what's the rationale behind(how to justify) (2) How can it works? (I mean the free -love -free- sex system)

It seems so much confused when people claimed they are lesbians, and think that female-female mode of love & sex can be as free as it can be. (But they may not do so in heterosexual world where they might hv come from) Is there anything we hv to think abt here?
Is that a place of wildness where you can play happily as you want? Or you really like woman or not or you simply like freedom of love and sex in being Gay? I think it really ruin the whole place!! It's infection of disastrous ideas only of which we are always being condemned .

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: ur constrain here is stated by what? If love is no constrains, and can get any if u want, it's really like an animal world. Partially, human is a kind of animal, but with ethics to be bound and learnt. If u are likely so open or free, why not u just naked and walked in the street and find ur love, this is another world of wildness, if u like? This is what further imply from ur message, the wildness of world!!!

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Date Posted: 20:21:37 01/13/04 Tue

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