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Subject: oh boy...sigh

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scarletyoureyes

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Date Posted: 12:05:15 04/28/05 Thu
In reply to: Dreemdanser 's message, "Topic for discussion: grey areas" on 11:16:27 04/28/05 Thu

Dreemy I am so sorry to hear about oldest son. It does seem that he's having the worst luck lately. My heart goes out to you regarding the feelings of hopelessness and anxiety - a lot of what we were talking about last week...with our eight-legged "friend." (LOL) It's one of those times where it's so hard to find a way to be comfortable in the moment - knowing that you have no very tangible way to contact him. I was talking with a friend last week about my worries and anxieties and she reminded me that in those situations where we are seemingly powerless, one of the only things we can do is just have faith in the universe, that we will be taken care of, and that the universe never gives more to us than we are capable of handling. It doesn't sound so very comforting when you're in the midst of a stressful situation, but it is something. I'm not sure if that helps at all, but I hope you were able to get something out of it. Of course I will be thinking of him and am sending my love.

As far as the gray areas...I'm not so sure what to say!! I have no children :-) annnnndd I know so little about magick. But I think that it is true that people mature at very different levels. For instance, BF is about one year younger than me. It doesn't feel like it at all. However, there are PLENTY of boys that are one year younger than me that seem infinetely less mature than he is, boys that I could never see myself with. Some people are ready at 18 to go away to college, others aren't. It's taken me two years to feel comfortable transferring colleges to a place where I won't be living at home. Everyone is different and grows at different paces. That is something I truly truly believe. So as far as magick...I guess it's one of those things that a person would just need to carefully evaluate on their own, pertaining to their own situation. I guess that's sort of a no-brainer though :-) I feel silly posting anything here because I know so little, but I thought I'd just share what I feel to be true about life in general so far, and try to apply it to this situation. I hope it worked okay :-)

Cheer up, Dreemy! Think about our little cell phone faux pas the other night if you need a laugh!!

Peace and Love,
Scarlet

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: 8-legged friend	Dreemdanser	08:00:48 04/29/05 Fri
Re: 8-legged friend -- scarletyoureyes, 09:16:54 04/29/05 Fri