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Date Posted: 18:51:34 09/25/01 Tue
Author: BonsaiBiker
Subject: The value of emotional pain...
In reply to: BonsaiBiker 's message, "Pain and Identities" on 18:37:04 09/25/01 Tue


is that it reveals our addiction to our "I".

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[> The separating quality of "love." -- BonsaiBiker, 19:14:35 09/25/01 Tue


You cannot have "love" in a relationship.... unless you have two people who see themselves as separate and apart from each other first... participating in a dance where one "I" loves the other "I"... and vica versa.

The creation of "I love you" requires that my "I" be separate and apart from your "I". One "I" must be the subject or lover, and the other "I" the object or loved one.

"Love", therefore, can be a separating ingredient between two dance partners.

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