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Date Posted: 07:24:26 07/15/03 Tue
Author: Kylie
Author Host/IP: NoHost / 139.134.64.153
Subject: Re: Just wondering....
In reply to: Kate 's message, "Just wondering...." on 19:53:31 07/14/03 Mon

Kate, I think we all go through stuff like this in our marriages.

I actually left our marriage when dh and I had been married six years. We are back together now, although I am the first to admit that it's not all roses. We have come a long way.

We do many more things together now and dh has made some drastic changes to some of his behaviours which were the reason for my leaving.

If you're struggling, what you really need to do is sit down with your husband and have a serious talk about it, then work out what you're willing to do together and individually to make things better.

Kylie

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[> Re: Just wondering.... -- Susan, 17:04:23 07/15/03 Tue (launceston-atm.vic-remote.bigpond.net.au/61.9.128.173)

Kate, I do think it is normal to have the up and down patches. Rob and I talk a lot if these problems arise and get our feelings know to each other. Also, we have our own individual interests and friends, but make sure we do things together often.
Are your family living in Manilla with you, or just you and your husband. Perhaps you are homesick? I know when Rob and I lived in Alice Springs for 4 years soon after we were married, I was so homesick and he worked long hours that I had too much time on my hands to "think". So I ended up getting a full time job (lol) and making new friends.
Kate, everyone here is very supportive and that's what this board is all about. Take care.


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