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Date Posted: 18:26:45 03/04/03 Tue
Author: Dissolved Girl
Subject: To Violet

"Like the title says. I was trying to help bold out because, like she says, I am a graphic designer and I'm not a newbie in this subject. It's also called I was trying to help her out because she's about one of the only people who's really been nice to me on this boards. I don't feel that any of you are really willing to give me a chance...and maybe you do want to, but you sure aren't acting like it. (What’s funny is I’m still willing to give you guys a chance.) That’s why I stopped posting or trying to get more entwined into the boards. Plus it doesn't help when I get grounded off the computer a lot and get really busy a lot because of my site, school, or other things. Plus I lost the URL to it once or twice when my comp screwed up so I had to go search it out again."

I, for one, would appreciate anyone's input on the site revamp, too. ^_^; Especially a graphic designer's. Also, I just want to say that I don't dislike you at all, and I've always been willing to give you a chance. I'm not the evil person you might think... =P

"Maybe if you guys really tried to get to know me you'd see I'm not a bad person like you think LQ is. I'm not that mean, and the only reason I defend my "purple and black forum" is because I put a lot of work into it and I am very protective of my friends and of things I am very proud of and work hard on (which my forum is one of those things)"

Just wanna say I never considered you a bad person. After I visited your board, and after you posted here a few times, I came to the conclusion that you can be a very polite and pleasant person. And I like the forum, too. ^^

"and it would be really mean of you to make fun of me or anyone else just because their LQ's friend. (You know that’s the main reason. If it weren’t for your contempt of LQ you would have never found out about Purple Roses or any of my forums or even myself)"

Ehh.... I never made fun of you for being LQ's friend. If I'm wrong about that, feel free to tell me. I think the only things I ever said related to you were a response to your opinion on MSTs awhile back, and posting those rp rules...


"So let's all be rational beings like WE SHOULD BE IF WE ARE REALLY ADULTS (or teens in some cases) AND NOT A BUNCH OF WHINING CHILDREN and talk this out instead of trying to get back at people with cruel words and trying to hurt other peoples feelings or make fun of them."

I agree on acting rational. Although I don't think everybody here was acting like whining children. Mercuria's post was harsh, and unwarranted, but no one else has said anything rude that I can remember right now.



"I really don't think it's fair to pick on my forum or my members (other then LQ I suppose. because I know I can't stop you there.) unless we attack you first it's just not fair and you know it. "

Once again, I can't recall making fun of any other members on your board. Or your forum itself...

"I'm not trying to be overbearing, bitchy, or anything else you may think that’s not positive. I'm just confused as to why adults would act like children and tease each other so cruelly. My mom has always told me that when you get to be an adult that people aren't like this. Man was she wrong."

I've worked with a lot of adults older than me (well, I'm not technically an adult for another year), and let me tell you.... many adults are quite immature. =( Not a great thing, but it's true. Although I don't think any of us here have been cruel... if you're talking about LQ here, she brought this down on herself with the way she treated others. Trust me, she's not the innocent victim she says she is. :s

"If someone does something wrong once and your still being mean to them a year or more later, then you’re the one being wrong then. If you don’t like what someone writes, then why read it? If you don’t like someone, don’t go attacking their friends or people around them. Attack that person, and that person only unless other people give YOU a problem. If they do nothing to you then they deserve the same from you."


Unfortunately, you haven't been around to see this whole thing through from the start. This isn't just all about LQ's one story. It's about the way she treated people--continues to treat people--badly. As for not reading something if you don't like it... well, you're not going to know if you like it or not until you read it...

And I've never "attacked" any of LQ's friends. I don't have a problem with them.

"Well that's all I have to say. Don't take what I say the wrong way. I just think it's amusing how you guys act. I've never met a bunch of people who acted so... so… selfishly and cruelly before...sorry to say, but that's how I feel. Good day everyone."

Can't say I appreciate the way you ended this. =P But it's your choice how you see us. I just want to point out that we're not all horrible, cruel monsters. I don't think *anyone* on this forum hates you--you certainly never gave us a reason to. I can't speak for Mercuria, but maybe she was under the impression that you disliked us, and couldn't see why you would bother posting a reply about a page you didn't like. =P Who knows?

And that's all I have to say. ^_^; Sorry it was so long!

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