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>That's exactly right. Do not waste any time with >jealous or vindictive women - younger or older. If you >are kind to all people and mind your own business, >others will know that you're not like those women. >It's not your fault and you shouldn't feel bad if >someone takes an interest in you. > > > >>I ended a 5 year friendship with a woman who was very >>competitive when it came to male attention. Female >>friends were there simply as her third wheels. If any >>man showed me attention, she'd make damn sure it >>wasn't for long by outwardly competing for the guy's >>attention. Which couldn't happen very often because >>she'd hop from bar to bar or leave a place where she >>wasn't the center of attention. She hated being called >>a slut or a whore because, deep down, she probably >>knew it was true. I literally never bonded with any >>guy romantically while out with her - except for the >>production managers and roadies she worked for while >>conducting her music-business work as a massage >>therapist and runner. I later figured out she wanted >>to push them on me, so she didn't have to deal with >>their advances. When I told her I wasn't going to >>accept any advances from a certain creepy prod. >>manager, she went back and told him what I'd said so >>he'd be angry at me. Gee, I must have been a bad >>friend for not allowing her to whore me out. I also >>suspect she soured another association I had with a >>different prod. manager by telling him something or >>other. She fooled me a looong time. She was very >>slick about competing with females while acting like >>she was a thoughtful, generous friend. All the male >>attention had to be on her at all times. I remember >>going backstage for one band's show. The guys were >>hitting on a young blonde girl. Band guys will take >>fresh meat over a couple of older women - no surprise >>there. Another time, we were on a tour bus where a >>famous lead singer took another girl to the back of >>the bus. Both times, she was clearly upset that the >>attention wasn't on her and wanted to leave in a huff. >>I left in a huff myself once - when I discovered her >>grinding against one lead singer I'd taken an interest >>in. Just a part of her attention-whore manner. >> >>I say screw those other women. At least they don't >>pretend to be your friend then stab you in the back by >>slyly trying to socially isolate you so their star can >>shine brighter. At least you know what your getting >>with these ladies. Still, I wouldn't bother engaging >>in that ridiculous game of upstaging -it will only >>make you look just as bad as they are.

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