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Subject: Re: How do you know if a band member is into you?

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Date Posted: 15:42:49 02/23/09 Mon
In reply to: nona 's message, "Re: How do you know if a band member is into you?" on 09:13:56 01/22/09 Thu

>
>>Sorry dear...if his girly was on the side of the
>>stage, he was simply acknowledging your enthusiasm. No
>>doubt he picked the cutest girl in the audience to
>>look at...that's what they do! Now had his girl NOT
>>been around, same deal, but you would have either been
>>looked for after the show or brought backstage during.
>>That is how you can tell.
>>
>>My metal guitarist ex-boyfriend is notorious for this.
>>Winking, pointing, eye contact and smiling...not to
>>mention the good ol' Fonzie thumbs up deal. They all
>>do it. He had many women thinking he was hot for them,
>>makes the sexual energy rise for the show! But that is
>>him...every night, every show and every tour I spent
>>with him...same motions...male or female. Fan
>>attention is mandatory at all gigs! That is how they
>>connect with the audience.
>>
>>But I do have to say...the people musicians tend to
>>pick in the audience to focus on usually have the
>>greatest energy and love the music! That is what keeps
>>them going on stage!
>
>I can understand and agree w/this, but what do you
>make of an over-enthusiastic show of attention?
>
>A band called "Firehouse" (the singer) used to dote so
>much attention on me during shows that I was actually
>embarrassed! He used to announce dedications of
>certain songs to me, then he would come to my side of
>the stage and sing the whole song to me. During other
>shows, if he didn't see me in the front row (but knew
>I was there), he would say, "Where's _____? Where's
>my girl?" Then he would ask the spotlight guy to
>shine the spotlight on me while he sang a song to me.
>I was flattered, but kind of weirded out. I never
>slept w/him either.

Oh...Firehouse...! LOL! I can tell ya now, the singer probably thought that he was flattering you! His ego needed the boost most nights and you gave that to him in energy by being at a lot of his gigs :). It tends to relax stage frightened band members if they see a familiar face in the crowd. But it sounds like he did go over board and I would be freaked out as well!
If he was going to sleep with you, he absolutely would have pursued you off stage as well.

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