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Subject: Re: Jealous Groupies Author: Worse [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 22:49:30 08/20/07 Mon In reply to: amy 's message, "Re: Jealous Groupies" on 06:44:35 08/19/07 Sun I refused to talk to her for a year because of the initial grinding incident on a bus. She certainly found out what I was pissed about. The thing is, she was so sly about it, she was doing it for a long time before it really started to bug me. Once she took an ex boyfriend to a show she was working at. She also brought a new boyfriend as well. To top in off, she had also been involved with the entertainer she was "massaging." Now how's that for needing a group of male attention? Well, the entertainer hit on me all night. Ironically, she found a way for me to never get access to him again (ie: the creepy prod manager incident). At first, I wanted to think she hadn't been doing anything intentionally. But then I'd heard stories from her other female friends and she did the same thing to them - only they noticed her unbecoming nature early on. Once I tried telling her that it's not appropriate to bring your boyfriend and your ex to a show where you are involved with the artist. She just ran off in a huff and didn't want to hear it. It all ended one night. She'd been working some show I had wanted to get into and started texting me telling me how yet another prod manager won't get me backstage (because she probably said shit to him). I texted her back explaining I had gotten along with this other prod manager just fine until I reinstated my friendship with her. She had the gall to reply that it wasn't her fault "I'm no good." No good at what? I thought? Being a slut? She was indeed correct, I couldn't compete with her in that realm. She blew a fuse and left me a crazy, insult-ridden message. The funniest thing is she called me an ungrateful fucking cunt. As though she had been doing me all these favors or something. Yes, she's right...I forgot to tell her "thank you" for letting me be her third wheel. It was a friendship based on what SHE wanted to do, WHEN SHE wanted to do it, WHERE SHE wanted to go. etc etc. That signaled the end. So, the answer to your question - there is no way not to be rude. And does that matter? If you have a friend doing that to you, dump her and fast. >Ooh. >i know a girl like that at the moment actualy. >did you ever say anything to your friend about it ? >how did you distance yourself from her without coming >across as rude? > [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]