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Date Posted: 13:35:46 01/29/01 Mon
Author: Romy
Subject: BIG comfort....
In reply to: Mystic 's message, "Well, at least it went smoothly" on 08:48:01 01/28/01 Sun

the Gods up there must get such a kick out of this dating-thing. I'm sure Cupid is a very amused lil' fella.

Haven't seen Him yet--thank goodness! I'm SO embarassed(sp)! I mean, as I'm thinking now, He too must be so amused that a 16YO girl fell for him! UGH, I swear I can't face him anymore--and I see him every week....

Floor (Flo, as we nicknamed her) is great--she bought me a big chocolate candy bar to 'comfort me', and she's continuously asking if I'm okay. Which I am, I'm just embarassed.

Do you still hang out with your ex? As in: are you still friends? That must be so hard, especially if you still love him (I don't know if you do)?

What I've been wondering for some time now, why do we fall in love with people who do not love us back? Why do we get attracted to them, if they aren't attracked to us? To use the Cupid metaphor--why does he shoot people without shooting the Significant Other of the person? I mean, it's so pointless.
On that same note--why do we get attracted to someone at all? What is it in that person that attracts us?
Right now, it seems to me arranged marriaged may be a good solution to a lot of problems...I'm just a little disillusioned with Love right now.

Romy ~taking another bite of that chocolate bar~

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