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Date Posted: 08:48:01 01/28/01 Sun
Author: Mystic
Subject: Well, at least it went smoothly
In reply to: Romy 's message, "OH!!! I'm just so freaking out here" on 10:53:45 01/26/01 Fri

>well I finally got my date...he called to today, and
>we were supposed to go to the movies next friday.
>
>found out he's 26 tho. I figured he was about 20,
>which is a lot, but well, 3/4 years, that could still
>work. 26...that is never ever gonna work. He told me
>on the phone today. First I was only like 'oh' and
>that was the only thing I could say. I was in shock!
>At first, I was like 'we can make this work', but then
>I was 'get a grip girl, he's 10 years older. That is
>NEVER gonna work'. Then I freaked and called Flo, who
>totally agreed with me, it sucks, but that won't work.
>So, I called him again, saying I liked him, but that I
>didn't want to date a 10 year older guy. He said he
>liked me too but figured 10 years was A LOT.
>
>And that was it.
>
>I did get a text message about an hour ago from him
>saying nothing more but 'friends?', which is really
>sweet.
>
>I swear, I am the only person on this earth such
>things happen to. I get stuff like this all the time.
>The last guy I liked which was around may, loved me
>for 2 years, but got over me like in april. How
>typical is THAT???
>
>Dating isn't my strongest point, I'm afraid. Flirting
>is, but dating, not exactly.
>
>Romy

Seriously dating sometimes seems like one big joke for us all to laugh at. My situation is that my boyfriend of the past year (ex now) loves me to death but the problem is that he just can't handle a commited relationship which I can understand since he is so young. Right now he needs to be able to run around and do whatever without anyone holding him back. Never the less I am glad that the cancelation of that date went well, and yeah 10 years is one heck of a generation gap.

In my case flirting isn't my thing, the only time I do flirt is when I want to raise some jealousy in my ex. But the only time I do that is when I am angry with him, those moments rarely come up.

Dating...........when will we ever truly learn?

*Mystic*

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