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Subject: Re: Motherhood ambivalence?

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Jen

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Date Posted: 17:04:28 07/09/02 Tue
In reply to: Scipio 's message, "Re: Motherhood ambivalence?" on 20:47:11 07/08/02 Mon

Yes, Scipio, that is exactly what I was trying to get across! Sure, motherhood is a drag on occasion, and it is DEFINITELY okay to be a little selfish sometimes (as I often say, it's not a martyr contest), but common sense should tell moms to expect that there will be "days like this."

You're right--the article had the sense of a petulant little girl about it, and there was an undertone of blaming children and society as a whole for some great deception ("this was supposed to be total bliss 24/7 and it isn't") that IMO doesn't exist unless a person has NO clue about what taking care of a child entails.

Jen

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Re: Motherhood ambivalence?	Siannach	11:56:27 07/10/02 Wed