Re: Male vs Female Strippers -- It's Debateable

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Subject: Re: Male vs Female Strippers

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Maria

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Date Posted: 11:06:03 07/11/02 Thu
In reply to: Bruja 's message, "Re: Male vs Female Strippers" on 06:44:09 07/10/02 Wed

>>Finally, I found that the "regulars" at the strip
>clubs where I worked seemed to follow the pattern that
>I've heard is true of a number of "johns" -- they were
>really paying for female company. As a stripper, a
>big part of your job is to walk around and mingle with
>the patrons. I found that a lot of men paid *for
>that* -- for the experience of having a no-tension,
>no-expectations conversation with a woman.

DH once saw our dog's vet at a strip club and all the girls knew him by name. I've never felt quite the same way dealing with him. (Dh was there for a bachelor party, he's not a regular, lol) We also have a married friend who visits strip clubs and god knows what else -- I've asked dh not to tell me any more because I just don't like knowing these kinds of things about the people I know.

>
>In contrast, male stripping offers none of that. It
>doesn't offer much visual stimulation -- I've never
>heard of a woman going *alone* to a male strip club,
>whereas a lot of men do. It doesn't key into
>(typical) female fantasies -- I don't think many women
>find the "Village People" concept very hot. It really
>is like a farce -- a way for women to bond over the
>"giggle factor" of *omigod, there's a nekkid man --
>and he's RIGHT THERE!*

Yeah, that's very true. Although I was at one bachelorette party where the bride (who was very drunk) was definitely into to the guy, who was a quite hot young man who would have been willing to do anything. Her big sister protected her from herself, paid the guy and sent him on his way. I wonder how many men would do the same?

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