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Subject: Re: Help

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Hulalea

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Date Posted: 01:06:39 11/25/06 Sat
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Help" on 19:51:31 11/24/06 Fri

I'm sorry, Heather. I know this is an extremely difficult time right now and Spencer's self-centeredness isn't helping. He wants to manipulate this season to open you up and it sounds like it's working - yes, I know how hard it is and I can't say I was successful either when I went through this. I had a really, really hard time and it robbed me of the peace and joy that I deserved. Spencer's guilt is working on him but not working for good - just for the junk thats going on between his ears. His thinking is twisted. You are the only one that can deal with your mind. Maybe you can try to see this as a wasteful energy that is being used up. For me, dating other guys was what I thought I needed but when you're vulnerable, you do and say things that you wouldn't otherwise - just for the warm hugs and kind words. Looking back on that now, I'm glad I stopped dating and instead focused on serving God. Attending church, being around godly people and serving others who are suffering with what you've gone through that could use you coming up alongside of them and being a friend and guide. Check out Al-Anon or a Celebrate Recovery program. I also did a lot of volunteering feeding homeless, etc. That was way better than spinning out at home about my ex. It actually helped me gain back my physical and spiritual help. There is nothing like it.
Pray and feel Him near. I will pray for your strength and peace. God Be with you.
Hulalea

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Help	TR	12:08:51 11/27/06 Mon

Re: Help	Heather	14:13:31 11/27/06 Mon