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Subject: Re: Heather


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Heather
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Date Posted: 14:24:02 08/07/06 Mon
In reply to: Free Spirit & New Spirit 's message, "Re: Heather" on 12:57:13 08/07/06 Mon

Thanks for all of that. I didn't think I was still putting up with it but I am and you are right its not worth the fight because we know that an addict doesn't want to be a parent and will not come for them anyways. I am not holding off on the divorce. I cannot wait for my court date. It is in one month. It is taking longer because he did not reply to the papers he was served. So basically I am just going in there telling the judge that he is a meth addict and I want to protet my son and go from there. I will go with what the judge says because I know it will all be ok. My son has me and his older brother and that is what matters most right now. His dad is not functional and he proves it all the time. The only thing about my son is that when he starts seeing his dad , he becomes unruly and mean and just becomes this child I do not know. I think it confuses him and he cannot really process what is going on. So that is what I am most scared of. My son acting out again. It's hard on everyone around and I know my son doesn't deserve that confusion or the mind games his dad plays. I can imagine how sick he makes my baby feel. AFter all he makes me feel really ill. It's not a pretty thing.

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