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Subject: Re: Shelley


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Shelly
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Date Posted: 11:31:15 08/08/06 Tue
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Shelley" on 09:18:49 08/08/06 Tue
 Heather,
I thought you might find it interesting! I know it explained a lot for me -even when he is not using there are underlying issues that stem from who he is as a person. They may never be 'whole' or a good father figure to our kids. I am learning to except that -for me -for my daughter. Last night I hit an extreme anger phase. Wondering if it is like the stages of death and I just got to that anger part of it! I was furious last night -so angry that I have raised our child alone for 12 yrs and work my bootie off in the corporate world and raising her alone while he sits around smoking crystal, not working, driving a BMW, and has a maid to clean up after him. I am not sure that even if he gets 'better' and clean if I want to deal with him at all anymore. I am at the point where I just want him to go away -leave us alone. I know if he does get better he will fight me tooth and nail to see his daughter and I can't keep her from him forever (she will eventually make her own decisions &/or he will get clean and I will have no grounds to keep him from her), but today, right now, I don't want to ever see his face again. He made his choices -he decided to use and it affected me and his daughter more than anyone else! Today I am MAD!!
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