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Subject: Re: My daughters father


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Shelly
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Date Posted: 15:12:20 07/18/06 Tue
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: My daughters father" on 14:54:11 07/18/06 Tue

Thanks Heather. I live in San Diego.
He called me, I just didn't answer his call and I emailed him and texted him b/c I didn't want to talk to him -he gets me so angry that I can't be calm or think straight so I have learned communication via writing is best. It also allows me to have copies of what has been said, promised, etc. if I ever need them. Here's a question: A restraining order sounds so harsh. He has never been violent and I don't think he ever will. I even got in his face once when he was quiting the drugs and coming down and I was screaming at him and he never once showed any violent behavior. Is that my only resource? I know I probably sound naive and enabling -and probably am right now -but I love him and I don't want World War 3 that will only end up putting my daughter in the middle. I simply want to have steps in place for when he asks to see her that I have the back up to demand drug testing (which even if he is using meth again -he has always been a pot smoker and doubt he will ever quit that).
HELP!

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Re: My daughters fatherHeather15:44:38 07/18/06 Tue
Re: My daughters fatherShari09:10:04 07/19/06 Wed


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