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Subject: Re: My son is a meth addict and I have not heard from him in 3 months.


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Date Posted: 20:03:36 04/03/06 Mon
In reply to: Rhonda 's message, "Re: My son is a meth addict and I have not heard from him in 3 months." on 14:06:18 04/03/06 Mon

Amen. Another confirmation I am not going crazy. I also became a grandmother, who now is raising a 19 month old. This has definately put a wedge between my husband and I. He is older than I, has grandchildren of his own, but they live many states away, so he doesnt see them much, so he has been willing to step up and take the role of "PawPaw" for my grandchild, and I know he loves that baby. But our relationship is crumbling. Its not that I dont love him, he just doesnt seem to grasp that I am in a major depression over my daughters addiction and the way it will affect the baby. I get so mad when I cry and try to explain that I just need a hug, for him to be patient until I learn how to deal with this. I dont feel very sexual when I sometimes dont get a shower until late at night after taking care of a 19 month old, not to mention, sex is the last thing on my mind,,,not an hour goes by that I am not thinking/worrying about my own child, I cant just turn romance on like a light switch. Perhaps it is different for women, but I feel I would support him more, he feels rejected because he does not get all the "honey do's" as before,,and has actually in discussions said the words separate. Then I hold back even more,,I need a safe place to fall, to understand, but you are the first who has expressed how I feel, thank you for letting me know its not just me..

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Re: My son is a meth addict and I have not heard from him in 3 months.SUSAN F21:38:17 04/03/06 Mon
Re: My son is a meth addict - for numbHulalea11:24:41 04/04/06 Tue
Re: My son is a meth addict and I have not heard from him in 3 months.Rhonda12:08:35 04/04/06 Tue


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