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Subject: what's the matter? Author: Kimmy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 23:33:04 10/31/02 Thu In reply to: Shannie 's message, "So bored you bring up past stuff? LOL" on 23:17:55 10/31/02 Thu Can't take a joke? LOLOLOL No really, I do understand what you are saying about your ex in-laws. I guess that would fall in what my idea of a hick is also. Everything you spoke of their bathing habits, manners or lack there of and not from lack of money or education. I was just playing with ya last night on the Mantel, bored and just playing along with your game, no ill will meant. Just joshing ya! :-) I took it that was how you meant it to be also. Was I wrong? Yes, I am talking about hick comments you have made in the past. You have made no bones about Pam being the hick and I was her dumb ass, poor, stupid and wishy washy tater sidekick that she took under her wing because she felt sorry for me. Yes, I guess it is sort of bizarre and also from being bored out of my mind to try and figure out what makes you tick. Just something for me to do, I guess. I had the day off from work, had all my household chores done and nothing better to do. Kids are all grown, so no trick or treating for me to do, had to put the Oscar away, it fell off the mantel and almost broke my big toe. Dangerous damn award it is. Regardless of how you think or how it might feel, my mission (as you put it) is NOT to make you look bad. Really! Hey, while we are at it, why do you have to pick Ari's post apart? Yeah, he does come from out in left field sometimes, but I think he really does have a good heart. Don't you think so? Just wondering....... [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Oh Kimmy, I tell ya.... Author: Shannie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:49:13 10/31/02 Thu I was just joshin' with ya last night, too! If I was going to be mean, I would have been. That wasn't my intention. It was so obvious that you were trying to make me say that I was calling Pam a hick. I wasn't. She stuck her nose in about Ari, I made a silly but not horrid response in return...then she had to get in there with her hooks and make the 'ass' insinuation. In the spirit of a good cat fight, I responded...though I don't think I was being a total bitch. Geezus. So what, I've made 'hick' comments in the past. Not excusing them, per se, but have you and Pam not made equally offensive comments to me? Have you forgotten? I'm not sitting here crying in my beer or anything, but I've been poked fun at for being on disability, for not having a husband, for not having kids, my house being a cheap old prefab box, being mocked for participating in Welcome Home with my painting questions (I've never had other people to discuss decorating with before, and although I apparently came off as bragging, I wasn't. I was scared shitless to start painting these walls because I've only ever had white walls before and I'd be the first to admit that I know very little about trendy colors and such)..... If you're going to bring up old shit out of the blue, should I also? So that we can start this crap all over again? It's insane, Kimmy....it really is. It's pretty much well passed the point of being funny any more....it's mostly just insane and we all look like a bunch of petty broads. but if you're all going to dish it out, I might just give some back. As for Ari, I really don't single him out. It appears that I do but it's only because in a particular thread, I happen to really understand and at least partially relate to the responses of others.....their responses are those of an adult, they're well thought out, they make the effort to make their point known.....whereas, Ari seems to get off being a twit. For instance, his post the other day asking which we prefer, rough hands or smooth. Course after everyone is laughing at him for such a seemingly stupid question, he THEN explains WHY he asked it (even Jo asked why he didn't just explain WHY he was asking to start with.....geezus, it would have hardly changed our responses.....). 98% of the time, I don't get what he's trying to say.......and when I seek clarification, it becomes some grade 2 word game. There's more to the Ari-story than you and others here are likely aware of, and I won't go into the details here....but suffice it to say, he crossed a major line with me at the end of DP and I have never thought the same way about him since. It was really quite sickening and I lost all respect for him (and no, it wasn't JUST him using fake names in chat, impersonating me and Lynn and others). 'nuff said. S