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Subject: It's killing me

Author:
Jamie

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Date Posted: 23:09:34 02/07/08 Thu

I got an abortion four months ago and i can't stop thinking about my baby. I wanted to keep it but my boyfriend of over a year and a half some how convinced me otherwise. I'm eighteen years old and now all i can think about is how i want to become pregnant again. Every month i pray that i'll have another chance, to choose differently. I can't walk by the baby sections in stores without wanting to cry. Everytime i see a baby on tv i want to hurt myself cause i can't believe what i did. I don't know what to do. I just want a baby.

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[> Subject: Re: It's killing me

Author:
Kris
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Date Posted: 09:11:53 02/10/08 Sun

Dear Jamie,

I am so sorry for your loss. It is really important that you find healing for this - and I want to encourage you that help is out there. Please go to:

http://www.inourmidst.com./abortion_links.htm

There are many links to pages that offer help.

Many Care Net Pregnancy Centers also FREE post-abortion help. You can look one up near you at this site:

http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

It's critical that you go if you can and work through your grief.

Having another baby will NOT solve your pain - and many women end up with only more problems - again, you need to heal and resolve the hurt before you move on here.

Please remember that you are a precious child of God and He loves you, even when we mess up, He is there waiting with open arms.

Hugs,
Kris