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Subject: I need a hug...


Author:
Nat (Horrible...)
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Date Posted: 15:08:49 03/11/07 Sun

I don't know how else to feel. I feel numb. I know I did the right thing because there is no way that I could've been able to give the child a good life. I can barely support myself. I'm 20 years old. I had my abortion 2 days ago. It's all new to me, I still haven't gotten off my painkillers. Although I don't have any physical pain, it remains emotional. The pregnancy was 15 weeks. I would've done it earlier but I couldn't afford it. I don't know what to think, I keep crying at random times (in fact, I'm doing that right now) and I honestly just want to be told that I'm not alone and that eventually everything will be okay. Last night while I was trying to sleep, I kept feeling like I don't deserve to live. I know in my heart that I made the right decision but I keep going back thinking "What if?"...

Can someone help me? I would really like to talk to someone who's been through this.

Thank you so much in advance.

Nat

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[> Subject: Re: I need a hug...


Author:
Diane Cheryl
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Date Posted: 10:15:10 03/12/07 Mon

Hi Nat,
I haven't had an abortion myself but my best friends have gone through the same experience you have. I just contacted one of my friends to post to you. Also, if you are interested, I can send you some post abortion healing literature if you have a confidential address. Please let me know.
Sincerely,
Diane Cheryl
DCHERYL51@yahoo.com


[> Subject: Re: I need a hug...


Author:
Mary Binder
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Date Posted: 17:50:43 03/12/07 Mon

Nat,

Hi, my name is Mary and yes I have been through what you are going through now. I would like to talk more with you privately and give you information on healing after abortion. Please email me at mjschoettle@aol.com and I will write you back.

Hugs,

Mary


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