Re: Did I do the right thing? -- Post Abortion Healing Support

[ Show ]

Support VoyForums

[ Shrink ]

VoyForums Announcement: Programming and providing support for this service has been a labor of love since 1997. We are one of the few services online who values our users' privacy, and have never sold your information. We have even fought hard to defend your privacy in legal cases; however, we've done it with almost no financial support -- paying out of pocket to continue providing the service. Due to the issues imposed on us by advertisers, we also stopped hosting most ads on the forums many years ago. We hope you appreciate our efforts.

Show your support by donating any amount. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your contribution is not tax-deductible.) PayPal Acct: Feedback:

Donate to VoyForums (PayPal):

[ Login ] [ Contact Forum Admin ] [ Main index ] [ Post a new message ] [ Search | Check update time | Archives: 1, 2, [3], 4 ]

Subject: Re: Did I do the right thing?

Author:
Kris

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Date Posted: 20:07:14 11/08/07 Thu
In reply to: Cecilia 's message, "Did I do the right thing?" on 11:16:38 11/06/07 Tue

Dear Cecilia,

It is possible to find healing from such a serious loss and hurt. I want to encourage you to visit:

http://afterabortion.com/

Please take some time to go through the site, post on the message board there.

You can also look for a pregnancy center near you - many of them offer Post abortion counseling. It's really important that you find a way to heal from this. Please don't be afraid to call them or go for help.

http://afterabortion.com/

Hugs, Kris

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Replies:

[> Subject: Re: Did I do the right thing?

Author:
Pat
[ Edit | View ]

Date Posted: 18:16:05 11/13/07 Tue

Cecelia,

It sounds like you were coerced bigtime. Your friends all painted a dark picture of how things would be, and they were dead wrong! So you made a huge mistake, and now you're paying for it. Your friends aren't, you are.

First of all, don't take the blame for what they did to you. You let them make you afraid, and you went ahead with it. And you obviously do need healing.

None of us deserve not to have something bad happen to us. Each of us has her own things to deal with.

Here's a place where you can find a crisis pregnancy agency. They have counseling and programs for women with your experience, and most of the people involved have been through what you are going through.

www.pregnancycenters.org.

Afterabortion.com has some excellent discussion groups. They can take you to a particular point. To experience total healing, you will need to seek God's forgiveness and be reassured He has freely given it. That's what some of these programs can do for you.

Good luck with this. Come back any time you need to talk.

Hugs,
Pat