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Subject: Re: lost

Author:
Kris

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Date Posted: 21:41:48 12/16/06 Sat
In reply to: DRM 's message, "lost" on 03:45:47 12/11/06 Mon

Dear DRM,

It's important that you allow yourself to grieve - and there is NOT a time limit on grieving - there are stages to grief, but they also don't fall in any certain order. There can be denial, anger, bargaining, depression and then acceptance. It's important that all stages are dealt with in a healthy way and that you find healing for your grief.
Here is a good web site:

http://home.att.net/~velvet-hammer/grief.html

Another really good site for you to visit is:

http://www.safehavenministries.com/

I would also like to encourage you to look up a CareNet center near you and ask about post-abortion counseling that many of them offer - the counseling is always FREE - and it can be extremely helpful. You can look up a center near you at this website:

http://www.optionline.org/hadabortion.html

Please do pursue the help you need - you and your children deserve it.

Hugs, Kris

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[> Subject: Re: lost

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Tiffany
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Date Posted: 09:51:10 12/20/06 Wed

I know exactly what you are feeling. I feel the same way since I did it. I can find any joy in my life. I cry all the time and don't have the energy to do things I love. I have checked on a post abortion bible study in my town and hopefully I will attend my first meeting next week. Have you checked on this sort of study in your town. It may help you. ALways remember If we ask for forgiveness God will forgive us even if we don't forgive our selves.