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Subject: Re: emotions over the past

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Pat

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Date Posted: 01:21:50 02/27/07 Tue
In reply to: Wendy 's message, "emotions over the past" on 17:41:23 02/19/07 Mon

Wendy,

Kris said so much that I agree with, but I just want to add a few thoughts.

You are having a lot of conflicting emotions right now, and that's understandable. I would like to point out that one of the reasons women get abortions is because they imagine that life will be a certain way in the future, and they can't cope with what they imagine. In a way, you are doing the same thing. You are saying that you wouldn't have your fiance if you hadn't had an abortion. Actually, you have no way of knowing that. The other thing is that since you have asked God for forgiveness, He will bless you with new opportunities. Approach this new relationship with loving and giving, but don't let yourself be compromised, because if you do, you very well might lose him. You both deserve each other's integrity. Work to maintain that integrity, and your self-respect. But if this man is meant to be in your life, you would have been with him regardless.

Please do keep in touch. We care about you.

Hugs,
Pat

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