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Subject: Re: I just cant go on

Author:
Pat

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Date Posted: 01:04:09 06/04/06 Sun
In reply to: Devin 's message, "I just cant go on" on 14:14:54 06/02/06 Fri

Devin,

I am so sorry! I have a sense of what you are going through because of some experiences in my own life.

Please do not harm yourself. We love you, and God loves you, and forgiveness is possible.

The other women said some really good things. I don't have a lot to add to what they have already said.

Try not to associate with your boyfriend as long as he is treating you so badly. Just make it clear to him that his treatment of you is unacceptable. Tell him that you need to not see him, and then stick to it. He has some issues to work through. Don't take the blame for the coercion he applied to you, and the lies he told you.

Just know that we care, and we'll be here for you.

Please pray and seek forgiveness from God. He will forgive you. I won't go into a lot of detail right now because I don't know where you stand on the question of religion and faith, but it is something I am more than willing to discuss.

Hugs,
Pat

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[> Subject: Re: I just cant go on

Author:
Mya
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Date Posted: 20:07:41 06/06/06 Tue

You are not alone. I understand how you feel, and the depth of your pain. I found that the entire situation surrounding my abortion was like an out of body experience. The entire decision and procedure itself feel like a dream (or rather nightmare) now. It was all just to quick and I have regrets. But know that you WILL be alright. Everything will be OK. And your baby loves you and forgives you. Everything WILL be alright. **hug**