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Date Posted: 19:14:43 09/15/03 Mon
Author: Lori
Subject: Glad to see you back!! As far as the "buts", I tend to try to learn from them and ask more questions about why they are "buts" (and sometimes the answer is just because the person is a "butt" hehehe). If there is nothing I can learn from it, I decide that it just wasn't part of my path - to get this thing done and I do this little ceremony where I write what the thing was on a piece of paper, take a special cermamic dish out I have for this purpose, and say "I have not learned anything from this situation and I now let this go" burning the little slip of paper in the bowl. That makes it a more formal ending to it and if somewhere down the line, I do figure out something I was supposed to learn, then that's alright too. This way, I can let it go and not worry "why" so much. Oh yeah, I have your stones picked out for your piece and will be e-mailing you this week with a pic of it! ; )
In reply to: Ellen *back from sunny Croatia and suffering in cold and rainy Germany - sniff sniff!* 's message, "Dealing with resistance" on 07:56:51 09/12/03 Fri


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