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Date Posted: 15:43:58 10/07/03 Tue
Author: Sheila
Subject: Heather......(((((hugs)))))...................(m)
In reply to: Heather 's message, "I am having such a hard time with this" on 07:50:54 10/06/03 Mon

I'm so sorry that you had to go through that! I hate to say it, but the same thing happened to me at my 6 week check-up with Matthew. I just wanted to crawl into a hole and die! I felt like every eye in the whole office was watching me me when I said that my baby had died. I think Joanne's idea is a good one.

Don't ever feel bad about asking questions such as, "Why me?" I think you have to acknowledge your feelings and be true to how you feel. This helped me through the grieving process & it still does.

My thoughts & prayers stay with you Heather. Hugs~~Sheila

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[> Dear Heather, I wish I could give you a big hug -- lynece, 17:24:56 10/07/03 Tue

or a magic pill to make things all better. Your grief is still so new and it will get easier. It's hard to imagine ever feeling better again, but you will. I too still have the "why me" moments and I think we will as long as we're on this earth. Hopefully we will know the answer on the other side. My 6 week check was no fun, the nurse did remember ( I was a high needs patient) but the office waiting area for 5 OBs was packed with pregnant women. It was horrible.

Hang tight to your DH. You may not grieve the same way, but this is such an important time to stick together.

Thanks for sharing with us. We love you and DO understand.
Lynece


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