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Date Posted: 19/11/03 0:20
Author: Jennifer
Subject: 過早的挫折

很認同Patsy說現今小孩都要受著過早的挫折與限制。小孩子要樣樣皆精, 四五歲要學鋼琴學書法學跳芭蕾舞, 為了要進名校, 為了要與別的孩子比較, 達不到父母要求要被罵, 小小的心靈要承受不必要的壓力與挫敗感。

如果一個小孩連與父母玩UNO輸了也要被迫作賽後檢討的話, 生活會開心嗎?

我成長的八十年代也是一個充滿壓力與挫折的年代, 小時候每天只為考試為功課而活, 想多看與「考試無關」的課外讀物會被喻為浪費時間, 精神心思都只有花在背「標準答案」上。中一時老師強迫我們要想像會考時的緊張氣氛, 考不了十四分是世界未日。

小孩子最天真也最易受傷害, 成年人用成年人的方法去「保護」小孩, 小孩子想飛卻飛不了。

只希望 I believe I can fly 不只是一首歌。

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Replies:

Re: 過早的挫折 -- Jacob, 20/11/03 0:18
- Re: 過早的挫折 -- Janet, 20/11/03 12:27
- Re: 過早的挫折 -- 小芝, 20/11/03 13:04
  - Re: 過早的挫折 -- Winniecat, 21/11/03 11:47
    - 找工作並不困難 -- P, 21/11/03 12:03
      - Re: 找工作並不困難 -- Winniecat, 21/11/03 14:41
        Re: 找工作並不困難 -- Agnes, 22/11/03 11:35
        Re: 找工作並不困難 -- Winniecat, 22/11/03 22:20
        Re: 找工作困難 -- Jacob, 23/11/03 18:34
        Re: 找工作困難 -- winniecat, 25/11/03 10:19
        Re: 找工作困難 -- Jennifer, 29/11/03 17:43
        any interview for applying the course in st james settlemnt? (NT) -- miu meow, 16/12/03 12:43
        Re: no interview needed (NT) -- vincent, 31/12/03 1:46
    - Re: 過早的挫折 -- vincent, 5/12/03 15:22
      - Re: 過早的挫折 -- winniecat, 7/12/03 17:19

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